Girl who needs dating advice from gay men? What is fact and what is fiction?

So that I can learn more about what the h*ll goes in a guy's head... Fact or fiction? 1) Guys think about sex everyday. Or Every hour? 2)Guys rarely cry. They find chick flicks boring since they are inherently unemotional. 3) Guys think about quantity and not quantity. I.e the more people the have sex with, the more confident they feel about themselves. The person's personality is not the issue. 4) Guys think girls are high maintenance, picky, and weak (i.e pussies when it comes to physical challenges, sports, etc..) 0__0 I also asked for dating advice, but I have nothing specific in mind..so anything goes.

Public Comments

1. i think those are all terrible generalizations about men
2. your are being really sexist and all of these are fiction. oh yeah and as for dating advice...no gay man is gonna have sex with you
3. I think that if you have these expectations of men, you will probably attract this type of man. There are many really god men out there....just hold out until you find one.
4. 1st : true they can be perverts 2nd: True they dont think its manly to cry 3rd: True again 4th: no not really some girls can be outgoing and just do it Youre welcome
5. I personally think most of them are fiction, but I am a girl. Oh, and for the first one.. I just wanted to say that I learned in my sexual psychology class that women are more sexual than men!
6. guys like sex and can distinguish sex from love apart from the issue of manliness, men are less demonstrative about crying because we like to have something of an internal life, some thoughts and feelings are private chick flicks *are* inherently boring, its just objectively true
7. 1) guys think about sex every time something reminds them of it... yes for all you girls that wear tight pants 2) Guys only cry when they need to cry.. Crying shows weakness :P .. I don't mind chick flicks, not my type of movie but id watch one ;( if i had a gf 3) Depends on the guy. 4) Depends on the girl... lol And this is for gay men, so i shouldnt of answered. Gay men make me feel uncomfortable, because just imagining what they are thinking about me doing..
8. i'm not gay, but i can say we're all different. I break almost every guy mold there is. I prefer small boobs, i don't think about sex all the time, i do occassionaly enjoy chick flicks (if its a good story and good acting...sadly theres only about 2 movies that fit this catagory but oh well). And i know full well that not all girls are high mantenence and i'm looking to date one. Nothing is a bigger turn off than a girl who obsesses about clothes and makeup all the time. Oh and i'm not out to collect scores. If it happens it happens, but i'm more interested in finding the right girl and sticking with her...
9. OK sweetie, here's the low down on guys. You are dead on it. Gay, straight, or bi - we think about sex a lot. And if most guys are honest, when they want it look out! They'd stick it in any available hole to get off. I've been with plenty of "straight" men because I was there at the time. Now crying is a different story. I've seen all types of guys cry. I've even shed a tear or two the first time I was with Javier. Riped me apart! But it was well worth it. Hope this helps.
10. Do not generalize, gosh. Genitals do not define people. Reverse questions for girls and I think you'll find that there is nothing that ALL girls do. 1.)No, Ima guy and I don't think about sex CONSTANTLY. 2.)I've cried before, it takes an awful lot to MAKE me cry, but doesn't mean I haven't and/or won't ever. Crying is just your bodies' reaction to heating up. Tears come down to cool you down. Everyone cries. 3.)I care about personality, therefore, that's not a fact. I just proved that wrong. Guys have feelings too, they wanna be able to have an emotional connection with their lover, personality is important! And most men have values, having sex with every woman you can get is not right. That's called being superficial! 4.)Girls can be just as strong as guys and guys can be weak as anything just like any girl can be. Do you HONESTLY think all men are superficial? And that ALL men are exactly the same? I'm sorry, but that's really ignorant. =[
11. 1)sex isnt always on my mind guys think about it just as much as girls do 2) Guys do cry despite popular belief it may not happen very often though. Some guys like chick flicks for their romance but thats about it 3) not always again girls do it as much as guys. If a guy has low self esteem he will sleep around alot then brag about it so do some girls. Or like girls their in that phase of their life where they arnt looking for anythign serious. But guys want to find love just as much as anyone else does 4) Yes, sadly that one is true not so much high maintenance as they are weak. Thats only becuse ther stereotype has been around since the beggining of time 5) advice.... watch what you say on dates because saying something that may sound perfectly normal to you may not be appropriate for the other person to hear
12. So that I can learn more about what the h*ll goes in a guy's head... Fact or fiction? 1) Guys think about sex everyday. Or Every hour? no they don't. 2)Guys rarely cry. They find chick flicks boring since they are inherently unemotional. never. whose to say what is a chick flick? men should watch whatever they want! 3) Guys think about quantity and not quantity. I.e the more people the have sex with, the more confident they feel about themselves. The person's personality is not the issue. wrong! 4) Guys think girls are high maintenance, picky, and weak (i.e ******* when it comes to physical challenges, sports, etc..) wrong!