What do women at clubs really want from men?

I am not talking about all women, cuz i know some just go for fun and stuff, but those who are actually seeking men. Are they looking for long term or short term? One night stands, casual sex partners, or romantic abstinent lovers. Girls I've met up at the bar seem to give me a wierd variety, the first girl I found wanted to go right to my house after we leave and the second girl I met in same club seemed like she liked me but automatically rejects me when I make a comment about how pretty she was. The third one was kind of shy to do anything but I knew she felt very affectionate toward me. I can't seem to shake her off until now because I don't know how to tell her that its over without breaking her heart. lol hey, maybe thats what the 2nd girl actually wanted. That explains it just right haha. Didn't know growing up included exaggerated statistics and pure indifference for the opposite sex. You go around with that cocky attitude and Karma will fix you right up man. Well if that what it means to grow up knowitall, then no, I will not. I am not as desperate for sex like you I can tell you that. Of course they want to feel wanted, but I want to know in what way. Don't go shoving the obvious in my face. I just want you to know that growing up is more than just knowing what "every" girl from a club wants and I think you need to grow up in some aspects because of the way you generalize.

Public Comments

1. FREE DRINKS???
2. they all want to fuck but they're all crazy too. even when you been with her for a couple of years you could say she looks pretty and she'll turn it into a fight. they're just like that.
3. Nice question, any how women at clubs means only for there self satisfaction like se* they will come. no feeling nothing at them go and do what ever u want
4. you know what you want you can ask for it it's quiet possible that every woman may not like you they also have choice for everything they share. Try again you may got the lady you looking for
5. ha a tough question. Some like to flirt but are only in it for the freebies, some want a laugh in the club but nothing outside and some dirty women want sex!!
6. It depends on their circumstances, some chix go to pick up, some go for a nite away from the TV, some go to drink and forget wat is goin on in their life at mo. I would say that most chix, if not taken or just have come outa a bad relashonship, are there to find someone who is their forever guy, but who dont want them to be too full on straight away. Some will go for the here and now, gone tomoro but some will want way more. You just cant tell. Ask them straight up? Say are you here to meet the man of your dreams, or are you here looking for a one night stand?
7. Grow up. 95% of guys are out to get laid, 95% of girls are out to show -off their clothes and asses, and get as many free drinks as possible. BOTH sexes do this to feed there egos, To feel wanted by the opposite sex. Getting laid usually depends on how desperate one is, or how many drinks they've slammed, or a combo of both....You know what always makes me laugh? Women who meet guys in bars, {and visi-versa} "hook-up" with him,{or her} And start bitching cuz he drinks... happens ALL the time.