Desperately Lonely After High School?
Im finished school, I have no friends at work, I don't have time to take any extra college courses, I go to the gym, I walk my dog. I hate online dating sites - They all just want money. Im not even sure im comfortable using them, and on top of that free sites like Craigslist seem to only be for people who want to have sex with strangers... I don't have time to volunteer anywhere - i work 60 hours a week. So... How can i make friends, or find a new girlfriend if none of the above are available to me? Im a decent looking guy, why the hell am i so alone. Seriously? Im new at this, but ... how do people find love? get married? start families? meet friends? Nobody else seems to have a problem with this, but im working my ass off, and even on my spare time i can't seem to figure it out... Its maddening, and i don't even want to get up in the morning anymore because im so by myself all the time.. On weekends i just sleep all the time because i know i have nobody to see. My old friends are NOT interested in seeing me anymore - even if they did live in the same state as i do. I want to get married. I want to build a life with somebody. All the girls I have met are so interested in drinking themselves to death it makes me sick. Nobody I meet is serious about life. Its just a big game... Party, Party, Party, I don't want to do drugs,and get drunk... I want to advance in my life. I hate clubs, I hate bars... I hate ditsy women. If anyone has any useful advice i would be ever so great full.
Public Comments
- Wow you seem like a good man. Surprised you don't already have a girl. You're better off alone than with a 24/7 party girl. But on the weekends, go places. You need to go out to meet people. You will find a ton of girls at the mall. Our hobbies consist of shopping. The right girl will find you.
- I have a feeling the same situation will happen to me meh. How old are you? like in your 20's hopefully you will get in better situations thats what I hope for too just not being so lonley.
