Is it fair for women to try and give men dating advice?

Men and women have it differently in the dating world. Any decent looking women has a line of guys willing to go out with them, but even the best looking and successful men can not get a date to save their lives. So is it really fair for women to judge men and their approaches to asking out and keeping a girl interested? The reason I ask is because it's always the good-looking woman that says "Oh, don't do that, that's a turn off" or "Don't ask that, that's a turn off". Fact is, single men have it harder to get a date than a single woman does. We think, act, and see differently in the dating world.

Public Comments

1. yes whatever advice they can get they need lol
2. I think it allows for some different perspectives for the men. It's just advice, you don't have to follow it.
3. ok any good looking guy has tons of girls lined up for him too...we just dont show it
4. we know what we like best so why wouldn't you want our advice
5. Yes because you want advice on getting a girl from an actual girl? Were going to know the best on how to get a girl when were a girl as opposed to a guy who just has theories whether they work for him or not. A girl will know how another girl is going to feel more than a guy is going to know how a girl will feel
6. only if men ask for it. men judge women too.
7. ya becuase women know
8. advice? no.. sharing? yes..
9. it really is because we know what she is thinking we can help you also i do it all the time to my bestfriend (boy) and it turns out his girlfriend moved to costa rica and he broke up and then he got together again then broke up and now hge is together again so also really it depends on the girl because it is possible to think alike and think diffrent so it is hard yet i really think girls can give guys advice and guys can give girls advice
10. yess sirrr/man
11. different girls like different things so a guy cant really rely fully on the advice of another woman. but he can take that addvice into consideration cuz we are just trying to help him out.
12. ya, most guys need all the help they can get!! haha
13. Well yes and no. Yes because women know what kind of man they are looking for. And women know what other women like about men. I also say no because as you said men have a different position in the dating world. It's harder for men to know what a girl means when she says something. Like for example if a woman says, "I had a bad day." she would expect her man to ask, "What was so bad about it?" But most men would just say, "Oh, well I'm sorry. Maybe it'll get better?"
14. it is in the reputation of the giving advice. if the man thinks that you are only saying things based on theory, he'll probably say "get out of here..."
15. it just advice....it's up to you if you go with it or not,,,,,,,,
16. i dont see anything wrong in having a woman offer advice. Woman mainly i would say those who are experienced, and knowledgable in the dating world are the best ones to seek advice. They can offer you insight as to how to approach some women, and dating tips etc. I dont think its fair for anyone to judge anyone to be honest with you. the only person who hs the right to judge us is God. Everyone is entitled to their opinion..which is something that you dont have to agree with. You can take their advice into consideration and test it out to see if it fits your profile.
17. we know what girls like...of course you should seek advice from girls, seeing as you obviously dont =]
18. a girl would know a lot about girls and their interests, it's like getting help from a teacher before a quiz. it can be helpful and not so helpful but the guy can do what he thinks is best
19. I suppose that different perpectives can be helpful to a gentleman learning the ropes; he'll never know if he doesn't ask. What is truly said is the person who does not know something and does not care to know.
20. Well, if they're pursuing a girl... then a girl is who they should confide in for advice! And just to let you know, I by no means think that I'm unattractive, but I don't have a line of guys waiting for me. Maybe the beautiful and successful women have trouble too! Plus, people DO try to look for equals. You give up some possibilities because you feel you deserve better. And in the long run, it's the best mentality to have!
21. you want the advice man its that easy.
22. stop winning, men judge women too, you just dont realize it. and there are lines 4 good looking guys too, we just dont show it.
23. umm yeah. You want advice from the real thing right? You just can't have a big ego and block them out. They are probably telling you valuable information that should pay off in the long run! Girls will know what you're doing wrong and why you can't keep or get a decent girl!! Sorry, but a lot of girls are pretty superficial and will reject you if you're not a knock out... harsh, yeah, but it's true. If you're not hurting in the looks department, girls probably won't reject you unless you're a jerk.