Me, a 23 year old man, am dating a 44 year old women, question?
The relationship is increideble she has a son that is 24 years old another that is 22 and 4 grils that are between the ages of 7-9. The communication is wonderful the problem that we as a couple are having is the sin that we are living. We are living together and have been dating for 3 months. She has tried 4 times to let me go because she feels as if she is a burden on my life. So she has in all her power try to let me go but I will not let her go. She is smart funny mature successful and just can not get enough of her. We are talking about marrige and my heart says go for it. I love this women and her 4 beautiful little girls. Any tips advice, anything please feel free to express your thoughts?
Public Comments
- If you are in love what can I say you are in love . . .
- 3 months isn't a very long time. You're still in the 'honeymoon' phase, where everything seems wonderful. If it bothers you living with her, then move out but continue to date her. I'd wait atleast a year before marriage, but if you're still as crazy about her in a year as you are about her now, then why not get married? She loves you, you love her, that's all that matters.
- hey man, if there's grass on the field, play ball. and yes that turf may be a few years past its prime, but whatever makes you happy is what counts. how do her kids feel about that? if my mom had a boyfriend who was a year younger than me, i would be pretty pissed.
- My mother was a 40 year old divorced women with 4 kids when she married my 28 year old step-father. They were really in love so much that my mother had two children for him at the age of 44 and 46. Unfortunatly, he died early in life at age 43 of cancer. He was very mature for his age and treated all of us step-kids like his own. Don't let the outside world tear you apart if you are both trutly in love. Many people treid to tear my parents apart because odf their age diffence, don't listen to them, they are just jealous or don't understand your bond.Good luck.
