Teen needing advice about girls!?

I'm a 16 year old junior and i dont believe in dating. Because of my cultural beliefs i know i will have no problem getting married and i want to do that when i'm 26, but right now the problem that i'm having is that there are girls in my school that are always floating around in my head. There is one girl in particular that i can't seem to ignore. She isnt ridiculously hot or anything like that shes just this quiet cute emo girl. The funny thing is i dont even know her name. I just have seen her around for the last few years and i find my self following her to classes everyday. WE have never even spoken. I know some of her friends and i think shes getting the idea that i'm interested but i dont know what way to go with it. I'm pretty attractive and all i guess but i dont want to get invloved in an intimate relationship. Any advice?

Public Comments

1. if you can handle it, why not be friends with her? that way you can get to know her and have her in your life now. because what if she is the girl of your dreams? years from now you could find her being your best friend, and then maybe you two could be more when you're ready for it.
2. Would you be interested in a relationship thad didnt involve the physical side, as a 15 or 16 year old girl, she would most likely be flattered and little awed by a guy that was not just trying to get in her pants, be friends maybe more and let the relationship grow into whatever it will, if it will last the years, if not fond memories.
3. Seriousle - dont A relationship involves two people - if you are playing interested in this girl and something transpires and you walk away she is going to get hurt. If you know this is not what you want - find another way to vent your emotions
4. think about it you are only 16 years old and a whole life ahead of yourself and girls will come and go out of your life. this girl might catch your attention now but, its just a faze, get your education first and start a career before worry about a girl. trust me I know what I'm talking about , the miss right will come into your life when you least expect it, and you will really be ready for her.
5. Eat tons of cheese. You will get so constipated you won't have time to think about her.
6. I have a similar problem, but I just prefer not to date from preference instead of culture. I decided to just get to know the person. It can't hurt anything- you'll get to be friends and who knows maybe you two will grow to genuinely like eachother. At that time, I would say if it will be worth it, just date her. But for now just talk to her and get to know her.