Desperate for Guy Advice? Please Read This. Thank You?
Desperate for Guy Advice? Please Read This. Thank You? I've been hanging out with this one guy for about 3 weeks randomly. I've always had a big crush on him. I finally told him I liked him after a year of keeping it to myself. His reaction was definately good. The reason why I never told him I liked him is because he does have a girlfriend (who also lives with him..) He told me to wait for him, until he breaks it off with his girlfriend. They fight all the time, apparently.. and he wants out of the relationship. So he'll randomly call me when he's not busy & ask me to come over & hang out. Everything was cool until we started sleeping together. I started getting attached and more emotional towards him. He's so sweet to fun to be around. We'll just lay in his bed, and he'll hold me like he actually cares about me. I can't really explain it. His girlfriend is moving out but they're still technically together. Most of her **** is already moved out. He isn't lying to me about that, but I'm so tired of waiting. He really likes me and wants to date me once he's free. I don't want to get hurt, though. I'm falling in love with this guy pretty quick. Like earlier I went to a metal show and he was there with his girlfriend. We had to pretend that we didn't even know eachother, and that killed me. I even noticed his girlfriend was trying to kiss him and he acted real stand-off*ish because he knew I was there. It's a huge secret what's going on between us and I guess it kinda made me sad that he couldn't even come up and say hi. I understand why, he explained to me that he wouldn't be able to prior to the show. BUT if he's breaking up with her why not come talk to me? ya know...He probably won't call me for another 2 or 3 days. I'm just sad over him, and wanna be with him for good. I'm sick of waiting... im just really depressed over the whole situation, and desperately need some good advice. thanx
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- to be honest? maybe he is this great guy to be with, but he is cheating. whether you like to hear it or not. its not as bad because your the cheateee. not the cheated. I feel bad for that girl. and you too. If he loves you like you think. then he would drop her quick. im quite sure if you werent at that show, he would have been kissing her. its something you wont find outt exactly. but definatly not a good sign for a good guy. cheating is cheating. once a cheater always a cheater. they always say thatt. he cant be trusted I wouldnt. I hope this helps you.
- Sorry to hear that babe.... Men are assholes when it comes to the wrong girl. Okay to be blunt with u... you shouldn't have slept with him. You pretty much gave the reward away before he made his decision to be with you or not. He could be stalling because he knows you are already on the waiting list so he's not in a hurry... if hes a real jerk, he might even scoop out other options. I know you love him and yes it hurts very much inside, but you need to gather up your pride and walk off. The only way you have a chance with this guy is if you show him you are tired of waiting around.
- just punch that ho beetch in the face and say thats ur man :) or just tell her off, or make him choose say he either has to choose you or her if he chooses her, then the time you've spent with him is all a waste, cuz he prolly still liked her when you were "with" him if he chooses you, then make him kick her out
- stop lying to yourself . once a cheater always a cheater, think about it, if he is doing these crap to his girlfriend, he might end up doing it to you, if you ever get together, he does these s.hit with his girlfriend because he knows that u are around, and if he was so concerned then he would of break up that relationship long time ago, "if you were so important to him", you have allowed him to do these because you hav not put any boundaries between both of you stop hanging out with him until you see he is real about his feelings towards you. please
- Well, why don't you ask this in one of the many heterosexual sections?
