Guys: Dating/Relationship Advice..Would you ever date a girl that has been through this.?
Sometimes I feel lonely. I know that I have amazing family and friends. It's just that every once in a while I do wish for more companionship. Like when i'm going through a rough time, I would like to have someone there for me. Right now, I don't think a relationship is in my best interest because my ex-bf passed away over a year ago and I don't think I am ready to move on just yet. Plus I don't think a relationship with someone else would be fair considering the baggage I would come with. What can I do instead to make the hard times feel better? Should I give a relationship a try at least? Are there any guys that would actually be willing to go into a relationship knowing such things???
Public Comments
- I think you should try dating (: Dating can be really fun, and it can be really relaxing. Have a good time, and don't tell guys about it unless you want to have a serious relationship with them, but it doesn't always have to be like that. Go out and start life again (:
- I agree with aliya, I've never dated b4, but to me going out and meeting someone new is better than dwelling on the past. Good luck and God Bless
- Yeah, plently of guys would love to date you and take care of you and make you feel better :D I hope you feel better soon! Please answer my most recent question
- You control your own happiness. You need to ask yourself "why you are unable to move forward with your life". Your bf would not like to see you moaping around not wanting to be involved with anything or anyone. So here's what you can do: Get yourself into some type of club which allows you to interact with others on a purly social level. Get a journal and write down how you are feeling. At the end of the week, reread your week and then make a plan to change 1 way of thinking/doing so you are able to move forward. A relationship is not the best thing for you right now until you can get your head straight...do your parents know how you feel? Communication has a way of helping people move forward. Talk/write to them if you can't say it in person. Good luck and I hope you get off your butt and DECIDE to move forward and stop fermenting in the past....its the past, you can't go back but you can experience the NOW and move forward and be happy.
