Single MOM, Guys Advice on Dating Single moms?
I have a son who is 4 months old. Do guys even like to date girls with kids or is it too much baggage?
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- I can't speak for ALL men, but I would have to say, "No. Kids are not too much baggage." And if they DO think that kind of thing, then they are "not worthy" of your time and/or effort. I'm only 39, but I have dated dozens of girls and *most* of them have kids. Personally, I liked most of them (the kids- lol). In fact, sometimes I would think of them as "little helpers", in a non bias way. "Excuse me, but could you pass me that pencil", or my favorite was, "Hey lil-guy, could you possibly grab me a soda out of the fridge?" lol (I don't know why I threw that in there, but only that it could be considered "cute") The only problem with *MY* situation was that *NOW*, some of them I really miss. And I'll just-bet that some of the kids might miss me, too. I would always play with them and MY favorite was building with Lego's. For you, I wouldn't put it out there right off the top. Perhaps you could wait a date or two until you popped that one on the guy. See how he is in general and observe his actions & reactions to see if he would even be WORTHY to be around your child. This should be a motherly instinct thing that would happen automatically, but still... Maybe wait to drop that on them at first. Don't have that be a "thing" just-yet and if the are NOT okay with it after you've hung out with them, then you know that it was best for the end result. Sorry my answer was sssO long. This was a good question and I wanted to put my immediate thoughts into it as-they-came. Hope this helped. Good luck!
