Bad Relationship, Im Afraid Of Him?

In the past my mate has,physically abused me, Im pregnant with our 2nd child, and I need to get out ASAP, I have my income tax money coming in a couple of weeks, and Im planning on moving with that money, but my question is- ..I will be moving the whole month of March, But how do i explain to him, where my things are? or why are my belongings disappearing? I need help with this move, like how much will a moving company usually cost, to move my things? and can they do it in one day! Where do I get Boxes from? etc.... p.s Please don't bother to tell me, to ask my family for help, these are the same people, who let me date this man, when i was 15, and he was 35...so seeking advice from them, is OUT I have to get out, Of his home, because he's threaten my life. he figures since i live here, rent free, everything should go his way....and i can't take it anymore please help thanks to everyone who answered this, I really appreciate your help

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2. Oh my god, do I wish I was there to help you. First of all, I want to congratulate you on being so brave and strong. You will be a great mother and role model to those children. You are doing an amazing thing. All I can say is that set up a date, after you get your money and a place, when he is at work that you can get a moving company to come and take all your stuff at once. This is the only thing I can think of. I am not sure where you are, so I dont know how much this will cost, but you can call around. Tell them you are preggo and have no one to help you pack and stuff and see if they would be willing to help you (hopefully you dont have a whole lot and you can tell them this.) Then as soon as you get out of there DO NOT TELL HIM WHERE YOU ARE and file for a restraining order for you and your children. One thing you might consider is calling either the police dept or a woman's organization/shelter and they might be able to help you out (with moving out and everything.) I wish you the best of luck. I really do. I was in a very much similar situation and I almost killed the bastard, had him thrown in jail, and moved to a different state. I was fortunate to have my parents though, so I couldnt imagine being in your shoes. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Good luck!
3. I think that you should not take anything he will notice is missing in till the day you are completely moving out. As for a the moving company start calling around and see what different companies are in your area and compare prices make sure what everone you decide on knows not to call you on a phone your husband could possibly be around. They should be able to do a move in one day under the circumstances. Just start right after he leaves for work. You can get the boxes at grocery stores. They have tons of them from loads of groceries they get in. Just make sure you hide the boxes so he doesn't find them. If he does tell him you are building a card board play house for the little one that you read about putting together in a magazine or something. Keep everything (clothes and toys) organized in till the day of the move and then have a girlfriend to come over to help pack and have the moving guys there early also. Leave as soon as your belongings are packed and meet the mover at your new place. The main thing is do not let him suspect anything or he may hurt you worse. **Best of luck to you**
4. just take the things you really need but take it bit by bit to maybe a friends house to store it.. if i was there i would help you but im not so i can just give you advice the whole month of march is way too long get out asap