Are you good at GIVING advice but SUCK at taking it or following your own for LOVE/SEX ?
I am SO good at giving my friends great advice but I can not seem to follow my own advice or listen to other people when theyre trying to help my personal dating life. Am I the only one or is this way common ? I am currently seeing a guy who is 34 years old, hot, smart, funny and has great job/education. But is also completey EFFED IN THE HEAD. He jokes about being mean to people, he taunts me with other girls chasing him, he speeds, he drinks a lot. his last job fired him. he pines for his hot ex girlfriend (i used to model professionally so idont feel intimidated) still i havent followed the advice i would give my friends on a guy like this. I shouldve run far away from him already. How can I learn to take my own advice ? Why is this so hard ?
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- you should start to follow the advice that you give others to stear you clear of some of the situations which involve bad choices
- I have the same trouble, great help for others but screw myself into the ground, maybe one day I will just stop dead in my tracks and think what would I advise someone else before I passionately go banannas...Its one thing to know what the right thing to do, its another to temper a high spirited passion when your under the spell. Keep trying hun, your caught up in a prison of your own making but one day you will snap out of it. My problem is often I jump in with both feet and then jump out as fast as possible and chalk it up like it wasnt meant to be anyway...I need to stop, a couple of these guys were sizing me up for marriage and I was scared to death, still am scared but I need to calm down and just enjoy things when I can. My problem now days is that I am over-comitted now. Gotta not forget that I am still young and can still be a good partner, I think I am just plain scared. I think most of us are. Love your dude, one day if he keeps abusing your friendship/giving you trouble you will just stand up and walk away. He will be sorely lost without you, but that is the way it goes sometimes. I have had to do it but it did take me forever to get around to it. My current intrest I am just confused about and hopefully when we get some time to talk it will remedy itself. I still have some hope...not ready to totally close the door. Take Care. Hope my novel helps.-Rachel.
