Going through a rough time. Advice?
My boyfriend and I are going through a pretty rough time. We are both living in Germany because our parents are military. Im a senior in high school and he graduated last year. We've been dating for four years. Last year his parents retired and went back to the states and he got an apartment here so he could be with me during my last year of high school. A few days ago he totalled his car, and lost his job. He has no home phone/internet and his cell phone is broken. We're lucky if we're able to see eachother 2 times a week. (we're use to being together almost everyday) And Now his mom his pressuring him to move back to the states. Everything is just going downhill and its been really hard on both of us. Ill be graduating in five months and we plan on moving to DC together near his family and starting at a community college.. Is there anything we can do to make things a little easier? Hes working on getting a car and a job, its just hard being overseas and all and being so young. What can we do to speed these last 5 months up? ANY advice would be great (:
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- is there any way of yous living togehter??
- Maybe plan an activity together once a week or something. Do something you both like that's a ton of fun and takes his mind off of things. Casual strolls in the park are relaxing.
- even if he has to move back there before you do, then remember he can get a place and apartment ready so you both can be happy when you move over there, I think that if you guys really love each other, yes it will be hard but you guys would make it 4 or 5 months until you can live together, and that way he can keep in touch with you over the phone and letters...it will go faster than you think...good luck
- the only advice i can give is dont rush...seriously i know you want these 5 months to speed up so yo can move to the states and have a happy ending right? it wont end there..i mean you will aways be fordced with tough times and this is one of those thigns. yes, you are young and of course you both have questions but if it is "meant to be" than it will work out. The only thing you can do is make the most of what time you do have together..finish your school and pursue your dreams..truely it will be an experience and if he is there for you like you say he will be there when your done and be there always...best of luck...
