advice. teen relationship?

I'm recently dating someone who treats me so well, but i dont feel like im doing enough. i'm only 16, and please dont be critical towards me. im only asking for advice. he says he's more the romantic type? not so much sexual even though he does have those moments. romantic type, what can i do for a guy like that? how can i make him feel appreciated. can i have some insight on what not to do or ways to make it work. much appreciated thanks.

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1. Maybe sometime you can take him to a hill, or a top of a building, or anywhere outside that you can lay on the car and watch the stars and talk all night. Its really sweet, and romantic
2. if he's at least 3 years older than you...GET OUT IMMEDIATELY!! He will not be the romantic type on the inside. However...if you want him to feel appreciated, take him out to dinner, or meet your extended family for a holiday. Romantically, massage him or say "i love you" (if you love him that is lol) Hope all goes well!!
3. I think being a good listener is key. Everyone likes to feel special and listening is one of the best things someone can do for you. Ask him how is day is everyday, and really mean it. Ask him stuff about him, his childhood and maybe his fears. We all like to talk about ourselves so give him the oppertunity to do so! Good luck!
4. Just have fun together and go out on dates, picnics, things like that. Go bowling, find a common interest. You're way too young anyway to have sex, and sex isn't always the most important thing in a relationship. Love, honesty and respect are. Try making his favorite dessert. And talk. Play games, and just have fun.
5. i would do little things that will surprise him. like tell him to come over and make him a special candlelit dinner. or take him for a picnic. just little things that will make him smile.
6. Just acknowledge the little things he does for you, and find out (if you don't already know) what he enjoys. That'll help you a lot. Try to have deep talks with him, and really get to know him on a romantic level. Maybe you could really make an effort to partake in the little romantic things he does for you, instead of just politely accepting them.
7. Tell him how much you've appreciate all he's done for you. He will like that. If he is so nice to you he should appreciate that. Questions: annlargosa@hotmail.com
8. i think all you can do is love him and tell him how much you do appreciate him. im 15 and i kinda know where your comeing from. whatever you do don't let just say nothing because he will eventually leave if he feels under appreciated believe me.
9. You know what's really romantic? Surprises. Surprise him with some cupcakes you spent all night baking with a cute message spelled in the icing. Surprise him with a nice homemade dinner. If you're not much of a cook, make him a gift like a poem or a photo album. These things are the best when they're unexpected, when there's no occasion.
10. Your best bet is to simply be yourself! You don't have to act a certain way for anyone. Honestly, you're very young to be in a relationship where the guy talks about anything sexual. My number one advice is to never sleep with anyone until you're married. Anyway, you just be a sweet person, and thank him for things, like dinner or movies, etc. He'll feel appreciated.
11. It's OK to be romantic and not sexual. He may be a little unsure of himself in that area. There's no need to rush it. So many people would love to be in a relationship like that. So, focus on being friends. Go bowling. Play board games. Tell each other about your childhood memories. Watch movies while holding each other. Compliment him. Show interest in his studies and career interests. When the time for more is right, you'll both know it. Let him make that first move. He likes that he's dating a "good girl" and he knows he has a responsibility in keeping you that way.