I need dating advice from males and females please?
Okay, here's the story. I am 15..he's 17. I see him around a lot..but he doesn't know I exist. I've never seen him with a girlfriend before( he could have one out-of-school??) anyway..my friend's neighbour knows him..a bit..would it be too weird having someone ask if he has a girlfriend..and maybe tell him a younger girl likes him a lot and thinks he is hot? I mean..maybe he doesn't get a lot of offers..he is kinda quiet. So am I , I am qiuet. But i like him..and i dont want to keep on thinking what could've happen..if i actually..let him knew? the thing is the age gap. maybe he wouldn't be comfortable with a girl 2 years younger ( however..im not the stereotypical yell-noisy teen girl) what do i do??????? I'd be enternally greatful..
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- because of your age, I'd recommend something in a public setting. Coffee, pizza, movies, etc. To answer the question about whether or not to have a friend tell him you like him - don't. That rarely works out like it's supposed to. Walk up and ask him.
- Let the person who knows him get you two to meet, like invite you two over to his/her house at the same time or wherever and let you two meet up. But be prepared to talk to him, flirt, try and be interesting, tease him and so on...
- id say ask him yourself having someone else ask is immature just walk up to him and say i usually dont do this but do you have a girl friend you dont have to tell him you like him by asking that it is a statement in itself or write him a note and get a girl friend of yours to give it to him and tell him to read it when he gets home. but be careful 2 years doesnt seem like that big of a difference but believe me hunny it is......
- You don't have to tell him your age until he ask and when he do ask act like you didn't know his. And girl you have to tell him. What if you friend ask and he like her. You would be broken hearted. Believe that!
