I would like to add, that his family is yet not aware of US. Secondly, its not that he got this marriage issue up because i was forcing him for this or something, i infact never thought about it initially, He himself got to discuss this with me, when i realised that we were getting serious, and on the other hand his parents were looking for a bride for him (though he is not getting married before 2 more years). So, it was he himself, who confessed in and said initially, when he for the first time tried avoiding me. SORRY AGAIN FOR THE QUESTIONN BEING TOOO LONG ....BUT I GENUINLY NEED SOME SERIOUS ADVICE .. :) THNX A TONN ... I WOULD WANT TO ADD ONE MORE THING, IF ANYBODY OF YOU WANTS TO KNOW SOMETHING MORE, OR YOU HAVE A QUESTION IN MIND , THEN PLEASE WRITE IT, I'L ANSWER YOUR QUESTION IN "ADD DETAILS" , AND PLEASE , RESPOND BACK AGAIN :) (i faced this, when i posted the question last time, there are people asking questions, so i would answer them here, you please respond again after reading the details again. ) thankyou !!!