make/break relationship !! ..SERIOUS HELP needed,sorry for the longest question:( ..but SINCERE ADVICE,URGENT?

I would like to add, that his family is yet not aware of us. Secondly, its not that he got this marriage issue up because I was forcing him for this or something, I in fact never thought about it initially, He himself got to discuss this with me, when he realized that we were getting serious, and on the other hand his parents were looking for a bride for him (though he is not getting married before 2 more years). So, it was he himself, who confessed in and said initially, when he for the first time tried avoiding me.I WOULD WANT TO ADD ONE MORE THING, IF ANYBODY OF YOU WANTS TO KNOW SOMETHING MORE, OR YOU HAVE A QUESTION IN MIND , THEN PLEASE WRITE IT, I'L ANSWER YOUR QUESTION IN "ADD DETAILS" , AND PLEASE , RESPOND BACK AGAIN :) (i faced this, when i posted the question last time, there are people asking questions, so i would answer them here, you please respond again after reading the details again. ) Thank you!!! SORRY AGAIN FOR THE QUESTIONN BEING TOOO LONG .... THNX :)

Public Comments

1. this relationahip is destructive, time to say goodbye and move on. It is obviously not meant to be, if he truly loved you he would move heaven and earth to be with you. You deserve better than this, there is a man out there who will worship you not put you through this on off nonsense. Don't keep texing him anymore, let it go. Pain now will save you more pain later.
2. wow, I couldn't even read the whole thing.. here's what, though: whatever his reason, he doesn't want to be in the relationship any longer. let him go, for his heart has already left. at least he had the decency to be honest with you- he could have drug you through the mud for quite some time. move on and be with someone who truly wants to be with you, girl. good luck
3. CA CA!!!! He wants out but is too big of a wimp to actually look you in the eye and say it. He's easing himself out slowly to ease his own guilty conscience not caring that it's torturing you. He only cares about himself. He doesn't care what he's doing to you. And don't think just because he feels guilty that he cares because he doesn't. If he truly cared he would have been truthful with you and broke it off quick to lessen the pain. What a jerk! Answer to your question. NO, do not wait for him! Your too important for that. Find someone who loves you completely and you love completely back and you feel good about. Do you feel good about him? If you honest with yourself you will know the answer is "no". Good luck!
4. he does love u, but he cant marry u, sorry but i think u should jus forget him bcuz all this break/ make up thing is only gonna give u more depression, and u kno in the end u cant be wit each other. Also, if u do get back wit him, u will always hav one thing in mind and that is that u guys r eventually gonna break up cuz u cant get married. i think if u really love him as well, u should respect is family's desicion of no love marriage. This relationship thing is only gonna give u grief so jus forget him now and start looking forward to more positive things, i kno that u love him nd he DOES love u, but u hav to move on b4 u end up getting hurt worse in the end. (btw, ima sikh too, prty cool :)
5. Just forget him. Funny quote BUT IM SERIOUS "There are a lot of fish in the sea." Let go he loved you... BEFORE
6. whoa girl! it sounds to me like it is time to move on. do you really want a relationship to be like this? no you don't. it is just too much fro you to handle right now. you are young and men can wait! he needs to figure out what he wants out of a relationship and love? at 24 most men don't have a clue what they want. if he really loves you then let him go. if it's meant to be he will come back on his own time. you must not get in touch with him first.no matter how much you want too. he might just cave in just to shut you up. harsh words i know but been there sone that! i moved on and married a wonderful man and now have 2 beautiful children.take a break have fun with your friends to take your mind off of things. live your life and when it is time for you to love and be loved back your mate will quite often just show up out of nowhere. pray for guidance and strength.