Please Read!!~Relationship Advice?? [{Kinda Long} Boys and Girls]?

When i was younger {like 10 or 11} I fell in love with this boy in my neighborhood. He visited his grandfather every summer an every summer we "Dated". As we grew older he stopped visiting as often, but when we did see each other we always picked up where we left off as if we were still "together". I am now going on 17 and he is 18 about to graduate. He has his own car now and comes back to the neighborhood and visits everyday. And we have once again...Picked up where we left off. We see each other constantly, but we never really get a chance to talk. I mean we text back and forth but when i call he's usually busy and doesn't return my calls. I want to be with him soo bad I don't think he realizes it. He says that he is always busy and doesnt want to call me late at night when he is free. So my question is what do I do, to get him to fit me into his schedule? Or do I just settle for what we have now and wait until he is "free"? Do I make the first move? Or let him?

Public Comments

1. I don't want to speak ill of him, but I don't have a good feeling about this. I think he's seeing other people. I don't want to malign him or hurt your feelings, but to make a few points... You know that feeling you get where you want to be with him all the time? If he felt that way about you, he'd be near you. But he's not. You clearly like him more than he likes you... and I'd say that makes things bad for you. Worse, because he's always off somewhere else, I'd suspect that he's seeing someone else. Possibly many someone else's. If you're not around to see what's going on in his neighborhood, maybe you're missing him out and enjoying other romances... and maybe he wants to keep it that way (but hold on to you, too). I would move on, and find someone who wants to be with you as much as you want to be with him!
2. he just wants sex
3. Let him
4. Make the first move, but don't be suprised if he says he doesn't want to do anything. Luck
5. I'm always of the opinion you should go for it. I mean...what's worse feeling rejected now or being 24 and wondering what might have been if you took the chance. Just do it in the right way though...broach the subject simply...don't profess your undying love for him...just ask him if he ever thinks about you two being more than what you are now, and go from there.
6. I don't think he'll come arround. It sounds like you are just a "Hobby", something to do on his free time. I would never wait. If he doesn't make time for you now, then when? He is not taking you seriouslly.
7. you can't fall in love like that at 10 years old. you need to get to know other guys and not focus on this one too much. If you've known each other for years and it isn't going anywhere then maybe you need to forget about it.
8. if he really liked you, he would talk to you everyday. and ofcourse if he loved you, he would make his whole day free for you. and my advice is to go get another boyfriend.
9. Hmm. Well, You text him, but when you call, he's "usually busy and doesn't return your calls." Sorry to say, that's the answer. He is not into the idea of dating you right now. Might be later, might never be - so how long do you want to sit on the bench, waiting? Look at it this way - if you get out, meet new people, do new things, find/do stuff that excites you, you will be a more interesting and happier you. You'll also meet people who like you fine and want to be around you, and some of them will be guys. You might find one who likes the same things you do, and likes you, and wants to be around you (and you want to be around him). The other guy might look at you and say "hey, look how busy and happy and interesting she is!" He might not - but you probably won't care. If you stick around the old homestead, pining away and filling your time texting and calling and waiting, you'll just be that poor girl who couldn't get over him back home. A distant object in the rear-view mirror. Make a great life for yourself that someone might want to share with you, and you'll eventually find that someone. Beats waiting around!
10. Honey if he wanted to make time for you he would, I am not trying to be mean but it sounds like he may not be that in to you as you are to him... good luck
11. If he trully likes u he would have fitted u into his busy schedule. He seems like a jerk tellin u dat u can't call him when he is actually free....thats a lie. so it is apparent dat he isn't gonna make the move so u are gonna have to. and u guys r really tight and u r trully in love with this boy don't let nothin stop u, tell him how u iz really fellin, and make him listen.