Dating an Indian guy - I need advice .?
I have been dating an Indian guy (born in India) and now working in UK for 2 months and I am Caucasian. He is comming form a very traditional family, and is torn between his wish to be in harmony with is parents and his longing to be free and be with me. I need your advice about how to make our relationship last and work out the eventual problems? He is of course afraid to tell his parents about us, and anyway it is a too early starge of a relationship anyway. And also he is very honest to me, and he is not one of the sweet talking Inidan guys who promiss golden hills and then return to India and marry a girl their parents chose for him. He actually already told his parents that he does not want an arranged marriage and that he wnats to choose his partner when he wants. So I am now open to hear advices about HOW will and can our relationship WORK OUT inspite of the difficulties and potential problems wit his parents. I know it is difficult, but hay, give me a chance to try!
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- In the end it will be his decision, so be the best you can be and make it hard for him to pick against you. I was in the same situation with an Indian girl, and the pressure from her culture was to much for her to overcome and she ended up having an arranged marriage. Don't put pressure on him, because he already has enough to worry about. Just be there for him, and hope it all works out.
