i need good relationship advice.?
alright, here's the skinny: so i'm dating this guy, right? he's amazing. we met at the beginning of last year and we've been best friends ever sense. we've been dating for five months now. there's only one problem: i had to move away. now i'm 100+ miles away from him and only get to see him about once a month. i know that long distance dating can sometimes work if you still keep in touch via phone and myspace. but lately, it's been getting really hard to not have him right here with me. so how do i tell him that? i still want to be best friends but what if he doesn't see the same way i do? i want him to be free to like other girls and to have fun with his friends without feeling bad that i'm not there with him. please help! i really need to tell him soon!
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- Just tell him you dont think it is fair to either of you to have to wait and be unhappy without each other. If he really cares about you than he will understand and want you to be happy.
- The same way you told us is the same way you need to tell him. It's hard to let a person go after being so far away, but you have to give him a chance to see if he wants to really work on making a long distance relationship work. Tell him how you feel and tell him no matter what you will always be friends. It's not easy telling someone something like that, but you will feel better that you did rather than letting assumptions get the better of you.
