Relationship Advice....? PLEASE HELP?

ok, I've been in a long distance relationship for a year and four months with an older guy and I love him. But I'm a teenager (17) and I like a guy at my school and he also likes me. The guy I like has a girlfriend but the only reason he is dating her is because she is moving soon. Should I stay with my boyfriend even though I want to have some free time and live up my teenager years before I go to college. Which I might be attending the college he goes to. I don't know if I should just stay with my boyfriend and forget about the guy I like or try dating a new guy. I don't want to lose my boyfriend I just want to see what else is out there. I don't want to be tied down in high school, and I told my boyfriend I want him to be my first since I'm a virgin but the guy I like said he wants to be my 1st and I told him I want to give it to someone I love and I already told someone else they could be my first. Was that mean? please help me do I stay in this hard long distance thing or let go??

Public Comments

1. u should stay with your boyfriend
2. I'm a guy so trust me. The only reaosn he is staying with her IS NOT BECAUSE SHE IS MOVING. That is what he is telling YOU. I'm sure he did say he wants to be your first, all guys will do anything and say anything to be your first. Wake up! He has a girlfirend! Think about it. If a guy doesn't want to be with someone-moving or not-he isn't going to be. What happens when he does what he is doing to his current girlfriend to you. He will. That's what we guys do until we grow up. We sleep with as many women as we can-run up numbers and say whatever YOU want to hear. For your own sake-leave the guy with the girlfriend alone. You are being misled. I can't believe you don't see that!!!!