need free advice on my relationship asap?
im wanting to date this woman who lives with her 19 yr old niece (both from mexico, they dont speak english). ive gotten the vibe that the niece doesnt like me. they also share a phone together. So I hit up the aunt to ask her out sunday. she told me she might not be home sunday but i hit her up anyway with a text. i had a feeling that she might not be there, so her niece would read my text. so i texted her this: "hey is ur aunt there?" ive never talked to her via text before so i just assumed she was reading them. the niece texted back and told me "yes shes coming back tuesday but u know she has a bf dont give her problems calling her." now before this text the aunt and i had a date set for thursday (she asked me out) and i was chill until i got this wierd text from her niece. I texted back: "sry if i caused any problems shes didnt tell me she had a bf" and she texted back "she didnt tell you bc she felt bad about not telling you not to talk to her anymore." is the niece bs'ing me?? the other weird thing is that the niece told me when her aunt is coming back. Ive thought about the possibility of the aunt having a bf, but it doesnt seem to me she wouldnt have the time for one. she's even told me she is surprised i still call her because even her friends have stopped calling her due to her long work hours, she tells me she hardly has any free time (she is a live-in maid, works long irregular hours six days a week) I am really infatuated with this woman i dont think i cant stop ok well if she is bs'ing me why did she tell me when my girl is coming back? I'd figure she'd just tell me she has a bf so dont call back, thats it. this really bothers me. i forgot to mention i am 21 and the aunt is 34
Public Comments
- Yeah, probably. Someone is bs'ing you! Either the niece is trying to ruin the potential relationship, or the aunt really does have a bf. Either way, I'd stop this before it goes any further... Sorry! Good luck!
- this looks like the beginning of a horror film
- I would try to talk to your girl, if the niece doesnt like you she could very well be bs'ing you. Dont' be too interested if your worried, just be friendly with agenda until youfind out for sure. Good luck!!
