I need serious relationship advice. We have been dating 3 months.?
I suffer from depression, anxiety and ocd. I am functional but I have never been in a successful relationship due to my insecurities, issues and choosing toxic (manipulative) people. I want to have a serious relationship. I have been working on my issues for many years now but the problem is I can be argumentative. His mother stopped speaking to him almost two years ago. He has changed since reconciling with his mother recently. All the things that he did for me initially he is now doing for his mom, and I’m starting to feel replaced. I think he truly does love me & knows that I’m a good person. My soul mate would not back away from me and he wouldn’t change the plans that he initiated. He is not perfect either but I accept him unconditionally. He is a recovering drug addict (which I have never dealt with b4) with two failed marriages and ocd. He seems to have a bit of a temper but I am a very calm person so the animation and dramatics seem weird to me. Please help!
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- oy, just dump him, you shouldnt trouble yourself towards him
- Be careful , these people are extremest. They are either super good, or super bad. There is a reason for the two failed marriages.
- Give him time. If you feel ignored or alone, try finding a friend to share time with while he works on his relationship with his mother. If the dramatics continue, he might have to choose between you or his mother.
