Relationship advice, help, dating a virgo?
OK, Dating this great girl now for about 2 months almost. She's great at calling me up, instigating sex and has introduced me to all her friends. The problem, is,she never texts me back after I text her, it takes her hours sometimes to get back, she smokes a lot of pot and has a lot of friends that she lives with, so I understand, somewhat, BUT when I don't get back to someone immidiately, its because I can't be bothered or am not interested. Is this the case? Is she only interested in me sometimes? Am I crazy? So, I did ask her once, and she said, she sets time aside for that, she likes to get back in her own time, However this makes me feel really lame, when I text or call her and she dosen't reply for hours. Am I lame?? Ok. Should I tell her, I'm beggining to really like her, even though I'm dating other people, I think about her a lot. I don't know if its the cat and mouse thing. But should I tell her how I feel? Or is it too early and will it just freak her?
Public Comments
- some people just dont like texting
- naa calm down noone wants to text when there busy or wwit ppl and it sounds like shes busy and wit ppl alot. be cool
- she might just be the kind of person who doesnt really text. also, a lot of people take a long time to get back with written stuff because they are worried about what to write and want to make sure its good because they are really into you, so you should probably just ask her about it.
- Well i think your best bet is to ask her! Communication is the key to any relationship so start by talking to her and let her know how you feel, im sure she has an explanation, if not i would not bother with someone who cant be straight with me about a simple thing such as texing!! By the way you might want to really reconsider dating someone who is getting high all the time, is that really a good match for you?? I wish you luck and i hope all works out!!
