I need some dating/relationship advice from a few good men aged 23-33?
I have this problem... Every guy I meet, I always think he just wants to have sex with me. Im not saying he really does, but its like, i cant believe anything that anyone says because i think theyre just saying it to have sex with me... its a bit of a problem for me cause i dont want to have a bf that only wants sex with me, but if i think every guy only wants sex than i end up with no boyfriend because ive told myself that. hard to follow i know, im sorry, im as confused as you are... my question is how can i stop assuming guys want sex so i can actually meet ppl and trust them and make friendships with ppl, not always feeling like i have to guard myself.... Dont get me wrong, I enjoy sex but I dont want to feel like its the only thing guys want from me. How can I recognize if he's really interested in me and not just poking my hole lol
Public Comments
- The easiest way to see if a guy is interested in you for more than sex is to see how long it takes him to give you a first kiss. If he seems patient, then he'll probably be patient waiting for the right time. Most guys will eventually want it though...it's the way the world turns. :)
- You're confused because that is what guys want... sex. And they probably want to date you too. It's not like you have a gift and once you give it, it's gone. That's the attitude that you have. You think you have something to give and once he takes it, it's gone and was stolen from you. You don't use sex as control, but because you like it. If you don't like it, don't do it. Don't use it to keep him around.
- You will never find a man that doesnt want sex all the time...just get over it and realize this is what makes the world go round
