I need some relationship/dating advice?

Ok, I met this guy at work a few months ago. We have been talkin for awhile. Well, finally I gave in and went to see him at his school and I gave in. Well, after that he seemed just fine, we were still talking and everything. Then he called my desk and I didn't answer, but when I told him sorry that I was busy he said no problem someone else helped him with his issue. He said he was busy tryin to get back to his school to go to the movies with his ex for her birthday. When I asked him if he was getting back with her he said, "I didn't say that, but she was all over me". So I said, "I'm not wantin anything serious right now because I jus got outta somethin serious but I also don't wanna waste my time." Then I said,"What do you want exactly? I'm ok with doing what we did, but I'm not cool with you doing that with me and two other girls on the side." Then he said, "Not sure want I want." WHAT DO I DO? I am so confused. I like him, but I don't want to be treated like crap!! Help me please!

Public Comments

1. FiND OUT WAT HE LiKE AND WAT HE LiKES TO DO AND ASK HiM iF HE WANTS TO HANG OUT AND LiKE 4 EXAMPLE HE LiKES FOOTBALL GET TiCKETS O FOOTBALL GAME AND iNViTE HiM...THEN HE WONT TRET U LiKE CRAP
2. Wow that guy is a total loser man! Forget him you are better than that!!! show him that no one plays games with you homegirl!!!!
3. He doesn't know what he wants. You cant expect a person you are not committed to to be faithful to you, and he doesn't seem like he will be. The best thing would be for you to move on before he ends up playing you.
4. First of all, you need to figure out what you want. Do you want it serious or just to mess around because it sounded like you don't want either. You send mixed messages in your question. In answer to your question, as long as he has three, hes "not going to know what he wants". What more could he want right now? A couple of women to mess with and no real responsabilities sounds like its just what he wants. When he has nothing or just one of you, he'll all-of-a-sudden care about it...
5. Well your first mistake was "Well, finally I gave in and went to see him at his school and I gave in." YOU GAVE IN.....as in the 2 of you had sex? WRONG THING TO DO!!!!!!! You 2 were not in a relationship together & you GAVE IN to him. WHY? doyou think so little of yourself or were you trying to get him to want you? Girl you are so much more then that. You are a beautiful person, start treating yourself like it. No man is worth GIVING IN TO..... Make sure that he cares about you, loves you & respects you, unless all you are in in for is the booty call. I think you should really look at this "person" & I mean look at him, do you want to really be in any kind of relationship with him, is he really the type of man you would take home to mom, is he one that you would even think about marrying? Does he make you feel needed, wanted, desired (in more then a sexual way)? Does he make your heart skip a beat when he smiles at you? Or when he walks by & you can smell his cologne, do you get this tingling inside of you? If you answered no to even a few of these questions, then girl let him go & find a man that will make you say yes to all of them, there are men out there like that.