I am a lesbian and my friend jus met this girl a month ago, my friend is really into her but turns out the girl actually likes me! The prob is, is that i actually like her 2 but i dont know what to do. We have actually went out together and kissed and everything. I feel so horrible but i cant hide the feelings that i have. I actually have a girlfriend and she has people that she is talking to also but she said she is willing to leave everyone else alone for me. So what should i do? My friend will be hurt, as will my girlfriend that i have been with for 3 1/2 years even though my girlfriend disrespects me and makes me feel insecure. Jus please let me know what i should do about this???