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Hi everyone. I am a white male who is dating an Indian woman. We dated for a year and then I broke up with her because we were getting serious and I felt conflicted. I love her but my family is very religious (Christian) and she is Hindu. Then about 6 months ago we started talking about and now we are dating. She didn't want to get together because she thought I still couldn't get over the fact that she is a different religion than me. We have been dating for three months. But now I am having the same feelings that I am doing something wrong. I think I should break up with her but feel really really bad about it. I know I should tell her the truth but is there an easy way to do it? Or should I just continue to date her until she breaks up with me? Thank you in advance.

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  1. y waste your time and wait for her..you kind find PLENTY of gurls dat r christian.. you say you are christian me too and its called CONVICTION!! the Bible says (im paraphrasing) two that dont agree shall not be together. and you are wit another gurl who is a confliction 2 your beliefs..
  2. I think that religion is a horrible reason to break up with somebody if you are happy together. If you're going to break up, the earlier the better. Just make sure that you wont want to get back together later, because if she was skeptical the 2nd time, she wont have it the 3rd time
  3. The problem is not that she is Hindu it is that you have somehow equated religion with morals. It is more important that you both believe in the same moral values. You should probably talk to her about it and see where she stands. If you can't look past her religion and ethnicity then no, let her find someone who can love her for all of her. I know a lot of Muslims and Christians who have excellent relationships and healthy spiritual practices.
  4. hey man, if you honestly feel that way it might just be time to cut it off. Will you feel bad? yes. Will you be a better person because you didnt stay in the relationship because you were afraid to break up with her? also, yes. It's going to sound horribly cliche, but it's like ripping off a bandage, do it quickly to avoid prolonging the discomfort. Take something away from the experience, and just know that you two arent compatible (at least through your eyes, which is what counts) and dont date her again.
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