I need advice from women....?
I decided to try out a very large 100% free dating site just to see. I ask girls if they want to talk and they say they do. Then i tell them a little more about myself, and when i am done i ask them to tell me a little about them. After that i never hear from them again. There is nothing about me to scare them off. What am i doing wrong?
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- There are a LOT of women on them sites after rich men I think
- Maybe you are taking it too seriously? Try to act a bit more casual and don't ask too many personal questions at the start. Also some people on those sites have no intention of actually meeting anyone in real life.
- Are you boring them or are you moaning about things?
- your not doing nutting wrong is just that some girls like to play with guys hearts witch it's stupid to due that to them i mean just be really carefully ok
- how about you tell the women in here what you tell the ones on this site and they might be able to help you out a bit better
- you are doing nothing wrong. Many womens now days are just little stuck up
- My Mum Does That But They Always Get Back To Her Do You Moan About Things? Try Seeing What You Both Have in Common And Ask For Their Email Adresses x
- Start by asking them about them ... women love to talk don't they .... and simply react to what they have to say. But the thing about these sites is that it really is number crunching ... just keep at it until someone special pops into your in-box. You have to wade through 'a sea of tossers' before you hit gold, so to speak.
- Maybe you are telling them too much about you which may be somewhat overwhelming. Just tell them pertinent facts about you and your hobbies but don't get too elaborate.
- Well, just try talking. Don't go into all the detail about yourself at first. Just let them add to the conversation as you go along. Ask them what they would like to talk about and let it kind of go from there and see if you get a little better response. Sometimes women just want to "yammer" about different things. They will eventually ask you what they want to know about you and as they ask you about yourself, then you can begin to ask them the same sort of questions about themselves. Maybe this will help you... hope so and good luck :)
- They would probably be turned off if you are telling them the exact person who are looking for. A woman wants someone who is open-minded and up for learning about new things and discovering each others interests & hobbies. Otherwise my guess is that you physically describe yourself - for example, you say you are 6 ft tall 215 pounds, athletic, with brown hair and brown eyes. And then you ask them to describe herself. A woman does not instantly want to tell you about her appearance because it usually results in the guy starting to be a perv and trying to talk about breasts, her body, and other sexual things.
- Buster, you bored them. It's not necessarily that the facts about you make you a boring guy, it is that facts are in themselves boring to girls. Do you understand me? You will hold them better by not taking a huge brain dump on them.
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