Guys only i need your advice......asap?

okay here's my question okay i'm seeing this guy but he has a girlfriend but they don't stay togther nor do they have any kids together he spend's all his free time with me but i work weekends so when iam working he would tell me he's going to be with her but my thing is why would he keep her around cause when we are together and she calls him he allways tell her not to call him and that if she does it's going to be over now iam not the one that's bother by him havin a girl cause i have a man and we stay together but iam will to just be with him my thing is why stay with someone when me and the other dude is together all the time more then we are with the people we are dating so my thing is why he still with her Iit does not matter if you can't read it all my point is why he still fucking around with her when me and him is together 4 out of 7days a week and the sex is off the hook and his girl is allways calling talking about if she give him money can she come over now thats one thing iam not going to do is pay a guy to come see him not but thats why iam asking you guy's so i can do what i have to do i just needed someone to talk to about this we all over the age of 26 so with that being said do not say anything stupid cause i know what i need to do just trying to see what other's think about it ... you guys didn't read the fact that i said i have a dude to and we stay together read people before you try to help me

Public Comments

1. guys do that a lot so that when one falls through they have a back up.
2. im a man but if hes with another girl than hes cheating on you what i might suggest is break up theres always other handsome guys
3. BECAUSE HE IS PLAYING YOU? Why stick with one source of poohtang when he can get 2? You need to REMOVE yourself from the situation before it gets any stickier. Love is a 2 way thing, not a triangle. Get out before you get urself a nasty STD
4. dude. i cant read this punctuate and finish your words because i cant understand half of what your saying. sorry
5. okay, I'm a woman and I have LOTS of older brothers who, unfortunately, treated women that way until my mom slapped them upside the head with a spatula!!!! So here's my thing...girls, and yes even some WOMEN who leave themselves open (not just figuratively) will learn a hard lesson. You can either remove yourself from this ridiculous situation: or you can stay in it and be used like a washcloth because that's what you're doing. Sorry it sounds harsh but hey, I have seen this time and time again. He's not the last man on earth, just remember that.