ok i need advice. should i feel guilty?
it was 2006 i think. this friend of mine, a boy was bored and ask me what he could do. he was online at that time. And i introduced him to my friend (a girl). She used to be in my school and she moved to another state. And my friend(the boy) kept talking with this girl over the internet and then went to the phone. They even met a few times when she came to our city for the holidays. it has become over one and a half years. Recently they broke up. The girl kinda ditched him. I feel sorry for my friend(the boy). I never expeted them to become bfs and gfs. it's because of me they hooked up. He used to free before this like he never dated before. I feel that i'm responsible for this. He never told me about being her bf till after one year. I didn't knw about it till after a year or so. They've been hiding it from me. should i feel guilty about it? WE don't talk much now. i don't talk to the girl or the boy. I feel sorry for teh boy. it was his first gf. can you please give me some advice thank you everyone who answered to my question i really don't know who to give the 10
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- You shouldn't feel guilty for hooking your friends up, you should feel disappointed that you found out that they became a couple a year after they actually became. Don't feel bad, you did something good. Just be there for the boy, and give him comfort and support.
- u had no way to tell that they would get together, let alone break up. dont feel guilty. esier said than done huh. but it gets easier.
- You have no reason to feel guilty. They decided to date without asking your permission. No, you aren't responsible for the outcome.
- Well,it really isn't your fault.The boy should have known that long distance relationships are pretty hard to deal with of course there would be drama.You really should just mine your own buisness but also be thoughtful.
- You shouldn't feel bad at all. You can't go through life worrying that any friend you introduce to another person might have a relationship and it might not work out. People introduce their friends to their other friends all of the time. If your male friend is mature enough, he won't blame you at all. That would be silly. You are a kind person to be worrying about this, but don't waste time worrying about it anymore.
- No u shouldn't feel guilty be sometime in life...a persons gonna get dumped.Weather its their first gf or their lets say 5th gf.U shouldnt bc u kno they kept it form u n he should of told u bout it n the first place.Plus they could of stopped talkin to one another to but they didn't n now they ain't together so really u shouldn't feel gulity...It ain't ur fault she broke up wit him...
- Dear Howllllll, Ok...so what's your point? Stuff like that happens all the time...it's part of growing up and having b/f;g/f situations...here 1 day...gone the next....and you soon get over it and carry on. Just becuz you introduced them doesn't mean anything...it could have been anybody intro'g them and have the same end result...stop beating yourself up over it...let it go...and carry on....and stop worrying about it...he'll do just fine, so will she...and so will you...OK? best wishes from kenab
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