i have discovered my boyfriend has joined an online dating agency what should i do?

i have been seeing him for about 9 months now, we have a great relationship and get on really well seeing each other evry day etc.. but i found out he has joined an online dating agency, any advice!!!?!?

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1. That's an easy one-DUMP HIM!
2. 我讨厌你我想要你死亡母狗
3. slap him with a slice of bologna and find a new bf
4. DUMP HIM!!!! he's obviously not as content as you are as he's still on the look out.... get rid, and quick!
5. In my twisted mind, I would join th eagency as someone else and spy on him. haha but I'm a witch....ask him about it, and see what he says.
6. Join under a different name and picture and F*^K with him on line for a few months and ind out all of his lies and then bust him.
7. He is obviously not satisfied with you and thinks he can do better than you! Get rid! Quick!
8. Could be done just for fun or as a joke but not likely. Most likely you just got a little warning you are fixing to be replaced or cheated on. Repect yourself and don't take the chance it's the later and find someone else.
9. don't worry about it they tell lies about almost everything online but u r the one who know the truth about him
10. Talk to him about it and try and get to the root of it and his reasons for joining. If he loves you and wants to be with you then he will unsubscirbe! but if not then I'm afirad you'll have to leave him, why be with someone who is looking for someone else?.
11. Ask him why? Ask him if you are not enough to satisfy his need? You know what just tell him to $uck Off!
12. Well you can surprize him by joining the same agency. It will make him realize how you feel. Tit for Tat
13. WAIT! Dont dump him yet. Give him a TIGHT SLAP first! Then u can dump him! U go girl!
14. Just ask him what's not working in the relationship? By asking you are risking your relationship too. Meaning you have been spying on him. People hate that. So good luck?
15. join him but load another photo and when he selects you surprise him
16. sign up on that dating service too, but dont tell him, contact him say you are someone else and see what he says! Keep what he says to you or print it out if you can, use it for ammo!
17. well, obviously you aren't enough for him if he's seeking girls online. maybe it's time to wise up and dump the ***hole. sorry, but that's the way it works.
18. DOES HE KNOW YOU KNOW? U NEED TO ASK HIM? COMMUCATION IS A BIG THING.... IF IT DON'T SEEM TO BE A THREATE DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT, OR YOU CAN GO IN THIS SITE AND EARSE IT..
19. You don't need to stay with someone who's shopping around for someone else. You are better off dropping him now. He is either cheating on you or thinking about it. Signs he's unhappy with the relationship but to cowardly to break it off himself. So, you go ahead and find yourself someone who will cherish you instead.
20. ok dump him get the online site he joined and you join...
21. buy shares in online dating companies lol. no seriously, is he dating girls or boys online ? ;)
22. First, you should accept that you don't have a boyfriend. :) Second, slap him with that bologna and find a new man! :) LOL, that was hilarious!!!
23. KILL HIM...just kidding
24. talk to him and ask him y he is doing that obviously he is not as happy as u thought then hey ask him if he would li8ke it if u joined the same dateing club then do it although 2 wrongs don't make a right u can give him a taste of his own medicine
25. Don't freak out over this. He is only doing it online. Worry about it if he starts going out on dates in the real life.
26. I agree w/the previous poster, you should post a profile up with a fake pic and name, flirt with him, make him really interested, and then suggest you two meet. Then, you go meet him and confront his scumbag a$$! good luck!
27. I'm sorry to say that your boyfriend may not be as happy with you as you think he may. I'm no relationship expert, but I would say that it clearly shows he is in search of. Why not join an online dating service too. If he's looking to date other people then I would too.
28. first of all..how did you find out he has joined? (did u join the same site to find him on there) second...when did he actually join..maybe it was before u even got together. if he has recently joined...confront him about it. but, he's going to wonder how and why you found out..so be prepared! (confront him)
29. My husband had a problem with over the phone chat lines... I didn't know about it while we were dating, or after we were married... I too had thought everything was perfect... I was so happy, that I didn't notice that something was missing... Eventually, money was magically vanishing from our bank account, and I was recieving bills in MY NAME and calls from collectors. I was able to track everything to his work phone since I filed fraud charged with the police department. He eventually copped to it, and said that he did it because he couldn't help it, he felt like he couldn't talk to me about anything... Everything has since worked out... So my question would be, Are you sure that he has joined this service? The best thing you can do is confront him about it... If there is an aspect of your relationship that he feels isn't working, he may be doing this as his way to deal with it.
30. He probably gets off on chatting with scanky females so either you let him and hope he doesn't meet anyone or you get rid of him and always date a guy who HATES the computer that's the best thing to do or if you want to be a snoop and get in there and start chatting with the scanks hes talking to and see what they say maybe hes already met someone and you don't want him if hes been with one of them he may have something down their yuck!!
31. Talk to him and ask why he joined the dating agency. Maybe he was forced by some of his friends. A group intervention for a friend.
32. you can join n ask him
33. Broken friendship is better than broken marriage. If you are thinking of getting married to this guy and are not happy with his dealings, share yours fillings with him get his views. Tell him that you are aware of his doings.If he can't give up, well i have never seen a grave for spnisters! leave and save yourself from streess.
34. Heres the deal. I take it you still wanna be with this guy. The question is how bad do you wanna be with this guy? Is this guy your life? Or perhaps you simply don't not throw 9 months down the garbabe. Or just maybe no guy will give you what you need like he did? Or maybe you feel its a alittle of all of them or some of them. THink about it for a second! Okay now that you thought about it, if you still want him bad enough in your life, but you don't want him seeing other girls, you need to some how get him off that online dating agency before he cheats on you and thats if he hasn't already cheated. Do by all means to get him off that dating thing and if he doesn't get off there, then he plans on cheating on you. Now unless you wanna feel like his little servant after he decides to stay on the dating service, I wouldn't be with him. Its not worth it. I realize it maybe hard to find a good guy or a guy that did the things he did, but its better to search than be a guys servant no matter how good the guy is. A guy that cheats on you is the worse thing that can happen.
35. Simple answer, talk to him about this, if you still love him, and he too is as passionate as you are towards him, Then talk about this to him, Ask him whats the reason behind he doing so, What i think is - Hes looking out for more attention, maybe it can be solved pretty easily if you both talk about this. And if attention is not the problem, then he just migh be looking out for some chicks to sleep with(Sorry 4 sayin that)