My boyfriend refuse to resign from a online dating service, any advices? Help!?

We met in a online dating club, we fall in love with each other after several chats, messages. But, he remains his profile active on Richromances.com so that other girls can contact him and he can reply. I feel upset, Do you guys or gals have any idea?

Public Comments

1. Time to move on. He is trolling.
2. So he's still looking even though he has you. Dump him.
3. what it tells me is that YOUR NOT THE ONE!!!
4. just let him have it, it cant do to much harm like my boyfriend me and him both have an account on a dating thing. espinthebottle but the main reason we do is because we have friends on there that we like talking to but cant call
5. he is not your boyfriend.
6. I would be upset too! Ask him why he needs to keep it. If you're looking for different levels of commitment you need to either get on the same page, or sadly, let him go.
7. sounds like he is playin u, tell him to get rid of the profile, or u are gone
8. Yep, it's harsh, but you are being used until something better comes along. Exit stage left......NOW!
9. Sounds like you fell in love with him, but he is leaving open his options. I would give him an option of either you or the site. He can't have both.
10. You fell in love, he did not. Move on.
11. If so in love, why is he still looking? Not so in love after al! ♥
12. maybe, because he is still looking!!!! move on
13. You need to decide if this is a dealbreaker or not. What is says to me is that although he likes you, he's still open to meeting others (perhaps someone he likes better). Yes, you are justified in being upset. I'd probably move on and find someone what was willing to give our relationship a go, and not keep looking to see if he could find something better (that means he's 'settling' for now). Ugh!
14. tell him your leaving unless he deletes his profile
15. Sociopathic tendencies. Dump him. He's looking at himself as the center of his universe. Only his happiness matters. His low self-esteem causes him to want to be validated by as many women as possible.
16. Are ya'll official? Have you met in real life? If so, then I would tell him to either delete it or lose you. Online friendships even can lead to more serious matters...such as affairs.
17. WHY DOES A FISHERMAN KEEP FISHING AFTER HE'S CAUGHT HIS DINNER?
18. he may want to keep his options open (just to see if he can get attention form other girls) talk to him about it and see one day when yall are with each other and on the computer ask him to sign onto the online account and see if he has been talking to girls. and if he has make him delete it if he wont then there is where the problem is. =]
19. If he's keeping his profile on line - he's not ready for the serious relationship you are. It's that simple.
20. Yes, get a life. You fell in love with only a couple of chats? How old are you?
21. how long has it been since you met him? are you still just online friends or have you actually met him? If you are 'together' in the real sense, its only from you. Obviously you're not the one he is looking for....move on girlie!
22. i don't know him but from what you told me he sound like ans a**. Dumb him he's not worth it.
23. Its time to kick his butt to the curb.
24. do the same thing and if he dislikes it then tell him, "Now you know how I feel." People can't really understand what we are going through until they have been through it themselves. Make him go through it and if he's ok with it then either stay with him or let him go.
25. This same thing is happening to me. My bf has a bunch of sites because before I met him he was sooooooo into finding the ONE... he has books all over the place too.. well in his bedroom and in his library... to a girl.. thats all over the place. I don't know why he won't let go. Is it self esteem? Is it a failure to be pleased by anyone who has faults? We all are not perfect and some guys keep searching for the perfect one just like some girls do. We know we girls do make lists of what we want and stick to them, and that is just as bad as constantly looking to see if the "one" showed up yet. I say if you don't think the one you are with could be the one then WHY ARE YOU DATING her?? You will only hurt her if you break up after she has truly grown to care for you. I have grown to care for my BF very much and it hurts to know that he is looking around at each chick going by. It hurts and it will probably end our relationship if he does not grow up and start paying attention to the girl he is with at the time. Guys you know....... you could be dating the one and not even know it because you are too distracted by your fears and by looking everywhere but at her heart!
26. well he obviosly isn't serious about your relationship, he is still looking
27. Relationship needs test. Let him dangle for a while. (I mean, let him to call you all the time, instead of you call him.) If he is eager to look for you, he is still care for you.
28. Let him stay in his silly little club, while we meet and you give me some sugar! If he don't like it make him quit.