Can anyone provide advice on online dating?
I met this guy online(not even trying) and we've hit it off but now he wants to take it a step further and exchange pictures and I am worried what if we are not attracted to each other. Than this whole thing will end and I'm not sure if thats what I want. I don't think i am unattractive. You just cant be everybody's type you know.
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- ok do you love him and does he love you? if so what you look like is no big dea unless one of you lied about what you look like
- Just explain that bad haircut before you send :)
- DON'T TRUST N E 1
- Exchange the pics now. At least this way you will know if you are wasting your time. God, I would want to know.
- think about it this way r u pretty or ugly
- how far are you wanting to take the relationship in the end....if he isn't going to be ok with your looks, would you rather it end later after you are more invested?
- yeah don't do it.
- exchange the pics i would rather be sure
- attraction should start on the inside, why would looks stand in your way if you really like his personality, and if he is really mature he will feel the same, looks are less important, people make a big deal out of it, i would rather be around someone that is compatable with my personality then be with some stuck up snob
- Ask him if the two of you are not attracted to one another (based on the pictures) will he still want to write. If he says, "yes" and he doesn't follow through on it, then he is not someone worth having. The only thing you have to loose by exchanging photos is your fantasy of what he looks like. and, by the way, photos only tell a small part of what a person is like physically. Their voice, their movement, their expressions, etc...
- Ok if you exchange pics and for some reason he doesn't like yours or you do not like his so what...isn't it better to find out now than later when your feelings are a lot stronger..by the way I met my fiance on line . I was worried he would not like my looks and guess what he drove to meet me . We hit off and have been together for almost 2 years now......by the way if things should not turn out the way you want them to..try this site: hotornot.com good luck to you...
