A guy is sending mixed signals - should I still pursue him?

A guy I've been talking to online for a while has been trying to get us to meet. When I finally became free, last week we set a date for tomorrow. However, since that time he's never mentioned the date again. I've been online since and we spoke but he never brought it up. Is it rude of him to do that? I'm pretty sure he didn't just forget, since he's been pursuing me for a long time and was very eager to meet, so I'm thinking it has to be something else, but I don't know what. Technically, tomorrow we're supposed to have our date but since he hasn't said anything about it to me this week, I don't know what I'm supposed to do. I'm not sure if I should ask him about it or take it as he's changed his mind. I'd appreciate some advice, thanks.

Public Comments

1. You shouldn't pick up people online, its a quick way to end up on MSNBC's "To Catch a Predator"
2. you bring it up in a casual way.....like its no big deal. Dont have any worries, he has never met you in person so if it does not work out the way you want it will be easy to move on without any embarrassment.
3. if it bothers you enough just come out and ask him. i wouldnt pursue him anymore. he should pursue you. please dont trust him. its sort of a sport for online prowlers. have a girls night instead. he would just bore you to death with lies anyway. you can guy bash next time you talk to your friends.
4. This isn't really much of a riddle! You have a date. You'll either show up or you won't. The relationship will progress (or not) from there. You know, men aren't REALLY the paragons of confidence they pretend to be. It may be that he is nervous about meeting you, or that one of his friends advised him to "play it cool", or something like that. Cut him a bit of slack for the moment. See what he's like in person tomorrow.
5. I really don't believe he's disinterested. In fact, I think he's really looking forward to tomorrow's date. A guy might think that if he often talks about an upcoming date with the girl, he may seem too eager and then end up scaring her off for whatever reason. Another way to say this, is that the guy just doesn't want to give her the impression that he's obsessed, so he will focus on other things in his conversations with her. Give him the benefit of the doubt. This may also be his way of surprising you with his special plans for the date. The best you can do at this point, is talk to him about certain other details about the date. Your questions can be about: 1. Are you both meeting somewhere or is he going to pick you up? 2. What does he have planned for the date? 3. Depending on the occasion, is there a dress code? ...plus any other burning questions you may have.