sorry-the question is way too long !! but I BADLY NEED A SINCERE ADVICE !!! please frnds,spare a few minutes?

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1. well by the looks of it you still feel for him but give it time people who have just split in the mean time try to forget about him listen to some music or go out with your friends it will hurt like hell but happens takes time to come you will find the right person someday just don't give up. remember whatever happens there will be someone to catch you when you fall!
2. Your problem is not that unusual . It is very often seen among Indian couples whose families are deeply rooted in tradition and customs .Judging by the manner of his behavior towards you , he still loves you but he cant admit it because he knows he cant marry you and then letting you go would be harder than it is right now . The only reason he said that he was lusting after you was just so you would break all ties with him ... for both your sakes . I see only 2 solutions to this problem and both are at the either extremes . If you cant accept the fact that he is'nt ready to go against his parents wishes , then you just have to let him go and forget about the whole thing . Or if you still want him in your life , you should ask your parents or relatives to meet with his parents to discuss about marriage , that way his family would'nt just disregard your relationship and it would'nt technically be a love marriage if his parents accept . These seem to be the 2 best possible options for you to consider . Good luck and don't give up hope !!!