eHarmony, OKCupid, or neither?
I'm a male college studen, and I have been considering online dating recently. There seems to be nobody in my area who meets my moral standards or shares my interests. Maybe it's because I'm too serious (both about life in general and about relationships in particular), but there seems to be nobody who is morally or personally compatible with me. Therefore, I think I will try out online dating. I read about OKCupid and eHarmony, which are both free matchmaking sites. Are either of these a good idea for someone who is an intellectual, Christian, extremely conservative, looking for long-term relationships EXCLUSIVELY, and not flirty or looking for someone flirty? Also, it probably doesn't matter...but I'm 19. Even so, like I said, I'm having problems. It's not that I'm unattractive (TONS of girls think I'm "cute" or "adorable"), I'm not out of shape (I get plenty of activity), and I am not some freak (I have plenty of friends). That said, please give me some advice! Yes, I do want to be on eHarmony, because my personal standards are too high for most other people--I am a straight-and-narrow sort of person, and looking for the same. As in: I've never consumed alcohol, done drugs, smoked, fooled around, or done anything morally reprehensible. I'm looking for someone who's the same. I feel that online dating is the only way to find someone like myself.
Public Comments
- maybe ur too picky? Ur 19 and u wanna be on eharmony?? Have a word with urself.
- speaking from past personal experiences: online dating doesnt work but that's whats my opinion :] others might think differently :]
- Neither try Lavalife instead
- ur picky
