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ok i need advice. should i feel guilty?

it was 2006 i think. this friend of mine, a boy was bored and ask me what he could do. he was online at that time. And i introduced him to my friend (a girl). She used to be in my school and she moved to another state. And my friend(the boy) kept talking with this girl over the internet and then went to the phone. They even met a few times when she came to our city for the holidays. it has become over one and a half years. Recently they broke up. The girl kinda ditched him. I feel sorry for my friend(the boy). I never expeted them to become bfs and gfs. it's because of me they hooked up. He used to free before this like he never dated before. I feel that i'm responsible for this. He never told me about being her bf till after one year. I didn't knw about it till after a year or so. They've been hiding it from me. should i feel guilty about it? WE don't talk much now. i don't talk to the girl or the boy. I feel sorry for teh boy. it was his first gf. can you please give me some advice thanks in advance

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  1. dont feel guilty there is nothing you could do about what happened between them!!
  2. Don't feel guilty. you did your friend a solid. The only relationships that last are the ones that end in marriage. everything else just teaches us what we want in the end.
  3. Why should you feel guilty about introducing two people? It was their choice to get together and date or whatever... you didn't force them at gunpoint. Guilt is for criminals.. you're not one.
  4. you have nothing to feel guilty for , just be there for him.
  5. what are u feeling guitly for?? if it wasnt for you he probably would never of had even dated?. why you feeling sorry for him? people gorra get on with their own lives,that was his experience ,im 40 and single and i love it.and every bf has been an experience good or bad we learn we live he had an experience good or bad life is life get over it :)xxx
  6. Honey, it wasn't your fault. You may have introduced them, but, they took it from there. If I were you, I would talk to the boy, first, and ask him what happened and if he blames you, chances are he doesn't and the girl probably doesn't either, but, you never know how things stand, until you ask. God Bless you,dear.
  7. dont feel bad because its not your falt.if they broke up its on them.yea he should of told you erlier but mabe they wanted to surprise you.sometimes you can get so caught up in a relationship that you forget about anything else. ((dont medal it will make it worse))just leave it alone and see what will happen
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