Help on dating? Advice from boys and girls?

Okay, i just started going out with this guy on friday night. like at the end of the movies. Heres what happened: I had gone to the movie with my cousin and best friend, and they were being really weird. I had invited a guy along (now my bf) and he was really shy around me when he got there. the people I was with wouldn't stop flirting with him, and it was driving me mad. Well, he found some other people and went to the movies with them. And then, like 20 minutes until the movie was over, my best friend found him and talked him into sitting with us.MY best friend asked me if she could ask him out for me, and i just shrugged. He wouldn't answer her, so I put it on the text thingy on the phone and handed him the phone. he texted back and said sure. Well, i asked if he was going to tell his family, but he said he was. i was like "but your sister hates me" and he texted and put: it only matters what we feel about each other" Help on what to do on the next date!! i've known this kid all year, and me and him have been like best friends. but i didn't think we could be more! Here is the tricky part: my best friend likes him but he wont go out with her cause she is like a sister to him. But i HAVE to tell her that we are going out because then it just wouldn't feel right if i didn't. so i'm telling her on the bus on monday, even though my bf said i shouldn't if it would ruin mine and her friendship. i think he is really taking my well-being into good thought, but i think he has liked me all year, just never got the courage to ask me out.

Public Comments

1. did u even know this kid!?
2. just keep on going to the movies here and there and have fun, and act just like you would to each other, you guys could go a long way.
3. hes right that it only matters of what you 2 feel but i think you should go to a local park and see what happens from there or go to the movies again ALONE!! hope i helped!!!
4. How exactly do you mean your cousin and friend were being weird? Do you mean the whole flirting with the guy you like was weird? Did your cousin and friend know you had feelings for this guy? That seems kind of rude that YOU invited him and then he ends up going with a different group of people. On your next date I really think it should just be the two of you going and none of this cousin and friend crap. He'll probably just want to go with some other group again. I think you should tell her, or it'll just be something you'll have to work to hide. Hiding a relationship can be annoying and tiring. Besides, you should have an honest friendship with your friends.
5. He sounds very sweet, and I'm glad that you two finally connected. As far as your best friend, did she know that you liked him also? Has she ever tried to make a move on him? If she knew you did like him, and even though she liked him if she's never made a move on him, then I think it's perfectly acceptable for you to go for him. It's hard to have friends that have the same taste in guys...it can lead to problems. As you can obviously see. But let her know that your friendship is important to you, and that you care enough about her to tell her the truth. Remind her that you liked him too, and you aren't doing this to hurt her. Maybe you can help her hook up with a different guy that she likes? As for a second date. It depends. What do you both like? If you're both into art, go somewhere that you can do painting or some kind of crafts. If you are into the same kind of music, go see a concert. If you can't afford a real one, go to a local concert. Those can be just as fun. They usually have them at local coffee houses, or little venues. Maybe you would both prefer to see a movie again? Try to find a drive-in movie! Or rent one, and watch it at one of each other's house, while cuddling on the couch and snacking on popcorn. There are a lot of possibilities. And don't be afraid to talk to him about it. Ask him if he has any ideas, where he might like to go, etc. And remember, it's the quality of time, not the quantity that is important.