22 year old guy, never kissed a girl, needs dating advice?

Hi, I'm a bisexual 22 year old guy who's quite experienced with the guys but has never even held hands with a girl, and not for lack of trying. I want to start dating girls but I don't even know where to begin. With guys, everything is so much more straightforward and simple. If two guys are attracted physically, they let each other know right away. Sex is very routine and sex outside a relationship is the norm. Needless to say, I think the rules of the game for straight guys are very different. Everything seems to be stacked against you, as a straight guy. You have to approach the girl, you have to let her know you're interested but not come off as only interested in sex. (Girls seem to have many more hangups about sex than guys do.) You have to be proactive, but not seem too desperate. It's like a complicated high wire act. It's a wonder how most straight guys even end up with a girl. I don't know the first thing about dating girls, so any tips would be appreciated!

Public Comments

1. You dont really sound like you want a girl that badly. You obviously enjoy the aspects of relationships with men so maybe thats what you should stick to.
2. lol
3. girls lyk ppl with a great personality and not interested in just sex, but many othre thigs lyk romance and that, we love to be able to relate to you and you must be a trusting, reliable person, if you need any more help or need t get somthing off ur chest, e-mail at yunieandlenne @yahoo .co.uk
4. We're pretty straightforward too! It's just that most men play games (i.e. tell us how wonderful we are just so they can get us in the sack) that we've become suspicious of anything that men say or do. If you're honest, you'll probably get more dates with a girl than you would think. And most of us don't put out on the first date, so if you're just interested in seeing what sex is like with the opposite sex, that might be a bit more difficult.
5. Do you want a relationship or just sex? Theres a reason us women are so complicated. Not all of us are just looking for a piece of ass. So I guess in a way, we're looking for the kinda guy that will show in some way hes not just looking for a booty call, but a lasting relationship.
6. Well, it depends on what type of girl u like really becuase we are all different, but there are some things that ALL girls like 1. Be just as straightforward as with guys...tell them if u like them. 2. Be honest 3. Be YOURSELF And the rest will come naturally, if it feels right go for it. Good Luck!
7. It's really not that bad! Just show a girl that you want to get to know her. Ask her questions about herself. Girls have a 'hang-up' about sex because many guys just have sex with them and then when girls want to keep talking and getting to know each other, the guy backs off. Many guys just use girls. I think that the best way to do this is just to be honest. Tell her what you want out of your relationship. (Sex or a long-term thing or whatever.) That way she can decide whether or not she is up for it. She will appreciate your honesty. The game really isn't that hard. At least you guys don't have to sit there waiting for the phone to ring. If you're worried about meeting girls, just strike up a friendly conversation. If you hit it off, great. It's really not as bad as you make it out to be. Also I'd hold off on telling her you're bisexual unless for some reason you think she's into it. Tell her after you've gotten to know each other a little better, i.e. not at your first meeting. Good luck and let me know how it goes!
8. first of all, your use to having someone come to you and do all the work of putting a relationship together when its different with a girl. usually a girl would like for the guy to do all the work, like making first moves. you have got to start makin some first moves... flirt alot but dont come off as desperate(flirting so much that its annoying) also dont flirt too much to let a girl think that all your wanting is sex. start off finding girls to have a "friendship" with and let it grow into something more. be there for her, be understanding, take up for her.. you know. as for the sex thing, i mean if you find the right girl, she will be understanding about it all. your wants and hers... but if you need anymore help with anything email me. clover902000@yahoo.com i know quite a few girls that say bi guys turn them on. in fact, ive had a bi boyfriend before. talk later...
9. 1. be honest with girls 2. be nice to them My GF told me that girls just wanna be loved and respected, so i think you should do just that