I am having trouble dating girls-please help. Advice needed please on this?
I am unusual in the respect that I don't like dressing up on any occasions, and prefer to just dress casually in me old jacket, baggy pants and my favourite green "wellies". When I have gone out on blind dates the girls I met objected. Is it unreasonable to expect the girl to accept me for how I am? Do you think I should change? Some people have said I need to make more of an effort and perhaps buy new "Wellington's" at least. What advice can you give me because I really could do with a lady friend who likes a chap with a rustic style? Am I expecting too much do you think?
Public Comments
- everyone has their own style but like your friends have said you need to make an effort, i mean you would NEVER see someone wearing wellies at a wedding and I doubt you'd want to wear some on your wedding. Get what i mean?
- Stick to the sheep. And the pigs.
- I don't think you should change just for certain girls. If they can't exept who you are they are obviously not worth it. I'm sure some day you will find the right girl who loves your style and who will have the same style and interests as you. Hope that helps.
- Of course 'she' will except you for who you are, but only once she knows you and its a a cruel world where people dont except you for who you are at first intro. So make an effort and when the conversation starts running, tell her how you feel nervous about the way your dressed and mention how you normally dress. She will probably be more inclined to acept you once she knows you a little. Good luck
- Dress like you give a crap, holy cow... Girls don't want to be seen with a guy that can't even bothering trying to look good. It doesn't have to be the latest fashion, but hike up some effort even if your a rustic jean jacket jacket guy :)
- Lots of women like the putrid touch, the stench from you would probably sicken a skunk,get the wellies, if you don`t get a girl they`ll be handy with the sheep.
- lol is this a joke from a wannabe "farmer joe" ha ha
- Dear Angus... If you want the lady to like you, do as she wants. And you need to spend lots of money on her for dinner, shows and concerts. Be sure that you tell her how pretty she is, even if she has a big butt. Just let her have her way (with you). LOL xo Granny
