dating advice?
i am dating a girl that I go to college with. we get along really well when we hang out by ourselves but we belong to a larger group of friends. when we all hang out together it seems as if she ignores/ gives me basic and blunt answers and won't make direct eye contact. this annoy's me greatly and i have talked to her about it. i sometimes get upset which leads to small but really stressful fights. we have been dating for about two months and i really want to make this work. neither of us are looking long term as of now but i would like to resolve this problem. any advice would be greatly appreciated. secondly...we were sleeping in the same bed one night and we came pretty close to " doing it." i don't know if this is a part of the problem. i don't really know her views on sex and i'm afraid to ask. i don't know what she wants but at the same time i dont know if im ready to ask her.
Public Comments
- You got to make a choice. You already talked to her about the problem that caused your annoyance, which led to a fight. So it seems she doesn't care to make any changes. Have you discussed a compromise? If there can't be a compromise, then you will have to figure out if you can live with her annoying behaviors. If not, then you just have to break up with her. There'll be other girls who would treat you with more adoration and respect. Sexual tension could cause a problem. Maybe if you slept together, it would help to bring you closer together. You've only been together for 2 months. Maybe she's a slow to warm up type of person, so she may need more time to show her feelings openly. Maybe she just doesn't feel too close to you yet and is still in test mode.
