guys i need ur advice, grls feel free to answer too.?
I know it's lame, but i'm finishing my sophomore year of college, and still haven't been asked out. i'm 5ft 7in 140lbs, i'm a c-cup, athletic and fit, red hair blue eyes (but i'm not the red that has red skin and freckles) my bff says if you put debra messings hair color and skin tone on a 16yr old brittney spears id be her identicle twin. i dress average/casual (don't confuse casual with grungy) i dont really go overboard with my appearance. i'm pretty well laid back, chill, and also nice. not to beep my own horn, but i'm ALWAYS told how cute, adorable, beautiful, chill, and sweet i am, but why isn't this enough JUST TO GET A DATE?! neway, now that you have an idea of what i am like, can someone please answer my question, why hasn't any guy asked me out yet, what can i do to make a guy feel comfortable enough to ask me out? it would be really nice to get a date sometime between now and before summer classes start or even end. i'm getting desperate. plzzzz help! ever since i spent my entire freshmen yr. dateless, i subconciously try my hardest at seeming approachable, you know, for ex: if i catch a guy looking at me in class or anywhere, i always smile and give them a sweet blink, and as far as going out, i always go to games, i LOVE tailgating, i go to bars with grlfriends, it's not like i don't get out or anything like that.
Public Comments
- boys either find you threatning and are afraid you'll turn them down. Or you presesnt yourself as unapproachable. Instead of waiting aroudn you should go ask someone out and once other guys see you asking guys. they will start asking you! :)
- I'd say that, typically, its a girls personality that invites a date proposition more so than looks. Now obviously, if a girl is hot that is the spark of interest. However, if she acts unavailable, uninterested, bitchy or aloof... That could blow it. You have to flirt, wink, touch, be confident and invite the propositions. And there's nothing wrong with asking a guy out either. One more point... If you put yourself in situations that you enjoy and have fun, you'll meet people with similar interests who would want to date... Be it sporting events, cafe's, clubs or whatever. Get out there to meet someone!
- Dear Cute 16, Your beauty is not the problem it is boys inability to approach you. I would suggest finding things you like doing that boys you like are around doing and try to work your way in and let them see that there is a great personality behind the gorgeous person they see. Then they will relax enough around you to get enough courage to ask you out. Be my friend, LTD
