Dating situation.. advice girls and guys..?
Ive been dating this guy (age 28, mine 22) for a little over a month now. He attempted one night to tell me he was falling in love with me (he was drunk).. I never brought it up again due to not being in love..(yet). Over the weekend while celebrating my birthday with his friends, he again spoke to me about him being in love with me. There are signs to me, that seem like he's far from being in love. I hear from him daily but at times it's a quick phone call than nothing else.. he works over 55 hours a week so i do know hes a busy guy. But can he really be in love with me? or does he think its what I want to hear. Also one of his friends girlfriends told me that he calls me his "girlfriend".. hes never told me that?
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- i'd spend some sober time together and if he says it then i'd say its pretty legit, unless he just wants sex, in witch case i'd hold out on that for some time, if he still says that he loves you with in the next month while he is sober and you haven't had sex then i say give him a shot! Good luck
- arent you guys dating anyways, so whats wrong with him calling you his girlfriend?? ummm for me personally love is a strong word, and you cannot be dating for only a couple of months and think that you are in love. love is a strong feeling.
- in all honesty, i have dealt with situations where the guy was in love with the "idea" of being in love rather than actually being in love. I would just give it time and it should reveal itself whether or not he actually is.
