given up on dating girls? advice?
I've never had a gf, well maybe a 2-day type thing but the girl broke it off because of her parents not allowing her to date i guess, mightve been a cheap excuse, I'm a 17 year old guy...girls just always play around with me. They become all pretentious to me, so I get these ideas they like me, so things go on, and I get rejected when asking them out. So I pretty much lost all confidence and just had this "fuck it attitude"...doing crazy things like smoking weed and drinking more now, what can I do anymore to really get that girl to become my girlfriend?
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- well to stop the rejection, be sure she is actually interested and not just playing you. when you have a fairly good idea she is into you make your move and hope for the best. Girls don't like weed smoking alcohol drinking guys so if you want a girlfriend i would try to stop these nasty habits
- hey bro....just be yourself and everything will come in its ownway man!..i was in your shoes once and what ive learnt is that weed and alchahol will make you high and happy but when the effects wear off your problems will still be there....also the weed and alchahol will just make evrything worse and mess up your head more....do something positive with your life..if youre still studying try finish it and get a good job...if not try take up a sport or hobbie .. drugs and alcahol aint the answer bro....try make friends, be youself ..drugs and alcahol just shows that you cant handle pressure and that will be something that will surely chase gals away from you..i know youre stronger than that...go to a library !!
