Do you think I did the right thing? Please feel free for any advice!?
Yesterday, I told the woman that I love that I am ready for a commitment and that I am tired of just being her lover. I want more. I felt used by her bc she will never commit to me yet she will go all the way to Cali to try to meet someone else for a long term. I told her I am way better than the other people she's ever dated. Those people treated her like crap, they called her names, used her, and wasted her time. I always say sweet things to her, and if I ever hurt her feelings I sincerely apologize. I gave her a choice to commit to me or we cannot mess around anymore bc I'm tired of playing around and I want something more deeper more complex. She said she can't handle a relationship right now. She has told me that for 3 years now. Is it that she just doesn't like me or what most women would die to date me. It's that she's the only one that won't be with me in a deeper way, but she loves sex with me. Please honest answers. Thank you. I'm so tired of hurting. After, I told her all this she hasn't even called or text me.
Public Comments
- well I hate to say this but I think she just doesn't like you that way. She is obviously ready for a relationship if she is traveling that far to meet someone. Move on!! She doesn't appreciate you and you deserve better.
- have you ever thought she might not be ready to commit to you or any one else. maybe you might have to look some where else
