Need Advice girl problems?

Hi Well i started dating this girl who i met at a party we went out on a date went fairly well so asked her out again there she said yeah. The problem is i didn't txt her for like 4 or 5 days, i txt her merry christmas then 4 or 5 days later txt to see hows she goin i didn't get a reply so i then txt her new years to wish her a good new years and she sent it back. Then the next day i txt her to see if she was alrite and see when she was free and she hasn't got back to me everyone has been sayin i've been playing it to cool so i think i've pissed her off maybe or something else so wondering if i should call or text her but don't know what to say to her. cheers for any advice

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1. dont text her. that is the easy way out of making that call that you dont want to make. call her between 8-10 pm. people are genereally done with dinner and bored out of their minds and willing to talk to anyone that calls between those hours.
2. I would agree with what everyone else has said, you would have pissed me off too (sorry). I think you should give her a txt again and ask her if you have done something to upset her and wait for her reply, or you could phone her and ask her the same thing. If she says you have been playing it too cool then just explain to her that with it being christmas you thought you would just give her some space to enjoy it with her family or something along those lines, say you are sorry too and you never meant to piss her off at all. good luck hun x
3. Yes you've definitely pissed her... you need to call her... sound slightly apologetic.. think of some excuse to make up with her... and say you won't do that again... actually it is with the female pshyco... they are always like that... do that if you want to... or it can be that she's got a bf already...
4. Give her a casual text, asking her how she's doing. If she texts back, then maybe a bit further into the conversation broach the subject of going for a drink/dinner/the cinema.. But if she doesn't text back, well you've text her enough times after this and I think the ball should then be in your court.. Good Luck! : )
5. I think you have tried texting her enough already! If you dont know what to say to her, dont ring either. Move on, you only had one date....
6. Ahhh...what is it with all the texting nowadays? Cant you just call the girl or talk to her face to face? Thats much better, no messing about, you know where you stand. Lifes too short, old boy, really.
7. Sounds to me like you behaved like a normal guy, there's no need to swap her with texts so soon and all the time. I can't see any reasonable reason why she could at all be pissed off with you. If she is, then she's really not worth the effort. If you like this girl, call her in a few days and ask her out on another date..if she says no then it's her loss! Good luck!
8. To be 100% honest, it sounds like she's moved on coz you took so long to contact her (any longer than a few days gives us a really bad impression and makes us pissed off) or she wasn't interested in the beginning. Sad but true. If a girl likes someone, she will definitely text him back and sometimes even be the first to text him. You have text her quite a lot and she has only replied to wish you a happy new year, which is what a nice girl would do anyway. But if she doesn't text you back any other time she can't be interested. Girls don't like to be pestered too much either so as a last resort I would call her and see what she says. If she doesn't answer her phone or is rude, move on. But there's the annoying and confusing part of it - she could just be playing hard to get... in which case, you should stop texting her and let her come to you, and she will if she likes you.
9. Yep you've annoyed her and she's well within her right to forget you. If it was me the only thing that would work at this stage is a phonecall from you apologising for playing games and an offer of a real date where you take me for dinner and a drink or two. She's not going to take the time to get to know you if she think you don't give a toss about her. Put the shoe on the other foot. If a girl asked you out and played games with you........would you tolerate it?
10. It sounds to me that you’re in the famous dating trap. Annoying!! Why do people ask for your number call and text for a while then loose interest? I don’t think its anything to do with you. There could be a number of reasons. Christmas and New Year is an extremely busy time so texts can be forgotten about. As I said it’s a busy time of year, so if I was you I would call her mid-evening and talk about social events like staff parties, only talk about these sort of things in brief because it can be a bit confusing and also at length, boring. Funny gifts you’ve received this Christmas. Tell her a joke. Films and music are also good conversation starters. Now the important thing is to ask her questions about what she says, not too many otherwise you could scare her, but enough to make her think you’re interested in her as a person. My major advice is calm down with texts; you don’t want her to get bored. Another trick I picked up is when you want to text her, text a friend instead. This limits amount of texts you send and she won’t be scared by the thought of you sitting their thinking of her all the time. However, I always worry about these sorts of things, its part of the joys and curses of dating.