Ehmmm I need some advice, girl problem...!!! Girls what do you think???

Well, okay... here is my problem... When I dated girls, let say like about a month... our frequency of seeing each other or talking to each other often drastically reduced... I don't know why, but almost all the time... it seems that there's not enough follow through... Whose fault was that? Do I need to do something different about it? Really, I didn't change into somebody else. What is it that a girl looking for or waiting for after a month of dating? Mutual attraction is present though... I'm pretty sure. I'm shy type of a guy... I mean I'm not the physically active kind of a guy who jumps in every opportunity of making out. Is that a problem for girls? I was brought up in a different culture w/ religious background, so I couldn't be as free as people in USA supposed to be. So can you please tell me what needs to change in order things to be working out? I'm definitely not an ugly looking guy, have a nice career, and a lil' bit of assets. (not bum)

Public Comments

1. dump that girl and move on.
2. you just havent met the right woman, and yeah, dating is not the best way to get to know people, while dating people tend to pretend to be someone they're not, so i say, better find love real connection, not just dating, be friends with people, have real things to talk about, its not found in dating, dating is lousy and im sick of it, it wouldnt get you anywhere real.
3. Well, basically, I think you should just show her that you're interested. you don't need to be making out with her all the time. It's not necessarily about the physical contact, though that is nice. You can perhaps call her on the phone, or leave sweet, quick text messages here and there. Send her flowers maybe, and when you take her out, let her know how special she is to you (if she really is, don't lie though). Be genuinely interested in her, and I'm sure you're a gentleman, but let her know that she is #1 to you while she is with you.
4. Make the the extra effort to do something special for her. The smallest little thing might make her like you even more than she did at first. You don't need to do anything big...maybe send her a rose with a little note that says you are thinking of her. Something like that may keep the relationship fresh.
5. hi. So I've asked myself the same question after my last relationship only lasted 2 weeks. pathetic, i know. If you are not so forward physically maybe that is the problem as some girls want that right away but don't change who you are, change who you date....stick with your values and get a girl that respects that! good luck