Short man, tall woman? Dating advice please?
Hi. I'm 5'9" and he's 5' 5". He's an incredible person and he adores me. I like to wear heels, but feel guilty and uncomfortable when I'm with him. Am I terribly shallow or is it common sense for me to leave?
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- Trust me. I think he is enjoying it. Next time you hug, just sneak a peak at his face. I'm sure he is grinning ear-to-ear.
- don't feel that way. He is probably comfotable with his height. I am 5'9" and well I have dated a few men shorter than myself 5'7 and maybe a couple inches shorter, who kust liked taller women. I think if you two feel good about each other and hit it off, height shouldn't be an issue, and he prolly thinks your heels are sexy!!
- I totally understand your situation. I'm 5' 6" and in highschool. The trend these days is apparently being like 5'2". I love wearing heels but I'm even uncomfortable wearing them around my short friends. I don't think its shallow, its just hard to overcome. If you want to move on, you can. There are many taller fish in the sea that are just as incredible.
- i am 5'10 and am dating a guy who is 5'7 and at first i felt wiered or thought i was making him feel uncofortablt when i wore heels around him but then i built up enough courage to talk to him and he told me he loved it when i wore heels and he didnt feel uncomfortable. so now we are going strong for 3 years. all my girlfriends are jealous that i got a good man and they dont think anything of my being taller than him. so i think you guys just need to talk about it or it will always be awkward.
- I think 99% of short men prefer tall women than shorter women.But only not more than 70% of tall men prefer tall women. Many short men like his gf towering before him.
