women only please, advice on dating needed?
Hi, OK, I know that online dating isn't the best place to find a girl but it's not the first time for me:) I've been chatting with her for 5 days already.. it turned into a friendly chat but I really like her and I hope this feeling is mutual. We have exchanged pics and that all so far. Now, how long should I communicate before I ask her on a date or at least, a friendly meeting? Thanks for helping
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- not yet, I am also at this stage with someone online and I am not ready to meet up, its better to wait a bit until she suggests something I think! that way you don't scare her off too soon...
- u should wait minimum 1week
- ask her out when you feel most comfortable, like, whenever she comes online, or get to know her a little more to make sure she is that person in the pic! Gd luck!!!!!
- ive been using the net for 2 years looking for someone.. it does work if you find somebody locally... dont rush into meeting at first, just be freinds and build from there... hope thats some help.
- talk on the phone first. it's still a safe transition before the face to face meetup. But don't give your home number
- I used to date all the time on-line a long time ago and found that you should set up a meeting within a week. Why waste all that time on somebody to find out that when you finally do meet, there just isn't any any attraction, or the person lied, or they refuse to meet at all? You're looking for love, not a pen-pal. I swear it works, and it weeds out who's serious and who's not.
- 5 days is not long enough....get to know her first...not saying she will lie to you, but most people who date online spin a few yarns....if you have a webcam, thats a good way of starting up a good friendship, but otherwise wait a little longer before you actually start dating...good luck
- 3 YEARS
- You're lucky to be living near each other. A daytime meeting would be less tense to begin with. Wait a little while longer and bring it up casually.
- i would wait about another 4 weeks
- You should get to know each other a lot more first. Create a bond. I think most girls wouldn't be prepared to meet up just like that, they would need something more, something special. Take lots of time - months. Tell her you would like to meet her, but that you know its too soon for her and ask her to let you know when shes ready.
- If you haven't talked by phone yet, that is the next step. Within a week would be good to meet in person. Keep it public and casual. Early afternoon for coffee, a light snack, a walk in the park, browsing a book shop, art gallery, window shopping, that sort of thing, but no alcohol. If you click and the meeting lasts through dinner, Great! If you don't want to even try a second date, go home and write a "it was nice to meet you, the chemistry isn't there, good luck in your search" email. Be kind and stay in touch because she may introduce you to her girlfriend or cousin, or maybe you have a roommate that would get along well with her. Enjoy the adventure.
- Hey i too met someone off the internet, my ex in fact and we met about 2 weeks after. it depends on how you both feel and if your both ready.. i too am into a guy on the net and he feels thed same about me, we are going to meet up but its just about the right time and when it feels right. good luck
- Ask her now,don`t wait .Maybe she`s thinking about the same thing.And she`s waiting for you to make the first move.
