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Do you think women I date in the future will continue to go out with me when I tell them I’m a virgin, abstaining from sex till marriage? Hi, do you think they will? It’s just I’m a virgin, abstaining from sex till marriage and I really worry about, when I do have a girlfriend, how she will react to when I tell her. It’s just, I know how rare it is for some one to wait, not that I’m judging those who don’t, it’s a personal choice. But I still can’t help worrying about it sometimes.

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  1. I don't think they'll mind. Unless they think differently about sex...
  2. all you have too do hon is too come right out n tell her,maybe she is the same as you,who knows,,,but good luck too you xxx
  3. No,they'll just think you're weird!
  4. if sm1 lyks u den they wudnt mind.. if sm1 gets put off.. dat jst means there not the ryt persn.. !!! dnt worry!!! but if der is sm1 out der u meet and u really fink der the one.. tlk to them bout it.. im sure u cud sort sumthing out..
  5. Hey, i'm doing the same thing. But i've got lucky, i have a girlfreind who is abstaining from sex till marriage also. Just be with them, and if they want to have sex, just tell them you cant, because of your choices. If they dont like that, i would say they dont have what it takes to be with someone who wants to make sure they dont regret something like that. Just stick with it, and find a girl who will understand. If you feel you need to tell them right away, wait to make sure your going to be with them for a while, because telling them on the first date probably wont go well if they dont want to go that far in the first place. Just what ever you do dont give up.
  6. I think it a good thing that you believe in sex after marriage. Girls will like you more cause your not after them for sex. They will know u want to build a relationship and ur dedicated to ur belief.I also believe in sex after marriage.
  7. just be a goodd boyfriend, and make a friend. After you get to the 3rd date. tell them your thought and that you want to abstain until marriage. She should respect that, and if she accepts this, then dont forget to be tender when she needs you to be, she will need that so she knows you still care.
  8. you shouldn't think that every girl that you might date wants to have sex. there are girls who believe in the same thing that you do and those are the kind of girls you should be looking for then you won't be uncomfortable and no worries. if not then you need to bring out in the open right away so there won't be any problems when you get close to someone. Its how you handle things when dating
  9. why do you reject sex?do you have a problem with it or is it a religious thought? if so i advise you to go out with a girl who has the same believes because you ll have a lot of problems with a girl who doesnt share your believes.
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